this girl who is known for sleeping around hit on my boyfriend... well he didn't do anything, he got the heck outa dodge and we've talked it all out and everything's ok... he says that they are not friends. but today i found out that she told him this... "i'm having a new year's eve part i want you to come. be there." i know he's not going to go, and i don't think he's talked to her since the incident... how do i tell her to back off without sounding to immature or childish about it... i mean i'm an adult, not in high school anymore at least... i'm 19... how do i tell her that what she did is wrong and she needs to leave my man alone?
2006-12-30
12:39:46
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what she said was a post on facebook... so it's free for all to see... she also knows that he has a girlfriend... and she keeps trying to "get" him anyway...
2006-12-30
12:43:02 ·
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It would probably be better if you get your boyfriend to do it.No matter how you say it,she won't listen to you.It may even make her try harder.But if she hears it from him she might actually realize that she has no chance.And in reality,it's his responsibility anyway.
2006-12-30 12:47:18
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answered by G M 5
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2016-07-18 16:34:45
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answered by ? 3
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Ask her "so who did you come here with?" or something similar. Maybe mention to her that you and your boyfriend "fiance" have decided to take things to the next level. Let her figure out what the next level is. If that doesn't work, simply tell her to back off. Nothing childish about that especially since she is making the moves on your guy. And your guy needs to simply ignore her advances.
2006-12-30 12:49:42
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answered by tko43078 3
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you can't gracefully tell this girl to back off. You'll just have to just plainly say it. If your positive she's showing signs of hitting on your b/f then you have the right to say it, but if it's just a jealousy thing and it doesn't sound like it, then it would be a bit immature, but just plain tell her to go away.
2006-12-30 12:43:40
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answered by Anonymous
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Sounds like a Cardinal wants to mate with a Sparrow
2006-12-30 12:41:20
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answered by Anonymous
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-04-26 16:58:41
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answered by ? 3
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if youre totally 100% positive that shes being a ***** like this.. get your bf in on it, and have them meet up, but instead of your bf going to see her, you should go.. if youre uncomfortable with that, have him go as well, and just talk to her.. if you make her feel uncomfortable, she will listen more to what you say.. rather than her feeling so good about everything and just ignoring you.. be the dominant of the two, and tell her to stop.
hope it helps. good luck
2006-12-30 12:43:16
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answered by tyler 1
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Just say, "you need to go out and find your own boyfriend and leave mine alone...do you even care how trashy you make yourself look to others??"
I think you and your boyfriend ought to BOTH go to the New Years Eve party together--LOL
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2006-12-30 12:43:45
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answered by maamu 6
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Tell her in the exact words. Be blunt and up front. You've got your man's best interest in your heart. The rest is up to him. Was he enticed by her?
2006-12-30 12:45:50
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answered by Anonymous
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I have the same problem.
Um myspace?
lol
Id just go up 2 her and be like stay away from my man or esle.
haha
Im not sure. personally id prolly send her a myspace message... but thats jsut me.. good luck..
2006-12-30 12:42:18
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answered by FairChild 3
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