i judge boys by there weight!i hate me for doing it but when a skinny or average weight person ask's me out i say yes,but if he's over weight or only slightly over weight i say no..i cant help it
2006-12-30 12:37:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
p.s i tried to go out with a over weight guy a chance but i kinda got grossed out.how can i stop judging
2006-12-30 12:39:47 · update #1
I don't think you're a bad person because you're attracted to thin people. Why should you hate yourself for that? If you're someone who is Cruel to overweight people, makes fun of them and generally tries to make them feel subhuman and worthless, that would be something else. But not finding someone physically attractive does not make you 'mean' in my opinion. You may find that what a person finds 'attractive' changes over the years.
2006-12-30 12:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls usually the ones that get picked for their looks (big boobs, skinny, tall, tan, blonde) you need to stop and realize that you cant judge a book by the cover who knows maybe if you looked at some of these guys besides their weight then maybe you will find the one for you and maybe you could help him get healthier
hope you get over this cuz who knows maybe you are over looking your one true love
2006-12-30 12:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop beating yourself up. You can't force yourself to be attracted to people you aren't attracted to. As you get a little older and more experienced with success and failure in relationships, some issues like perhaps weight tend to become trivial.
2006-12-30 12:43:29 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. I guess you can not help who you are attracted to, but when you mature and are looking for someone to be your husband you will look for deeper things in someone beside their weight.
We all get old and put on extra weight eventually.
The most important things are how a person treats you and their intellect.
2006-12-30 12:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a process we all have to go through. Later when your ready you will find that judging someone by there personality will find you better friends then by the way they look.
2006-12-30 12:40:51 · answer #5 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always go with your instinct and intuition. You cant have all the good stuff with someone your not attracted to. Your just weeding out who you know not to be good for you. There are plenty of girls who like big boys, so leave the big boys for them.
2006-12-30 12:41:32 · answer #6 · answered by shaquifa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame Shame on you - You're the one missing out on the best in life. Quit being such a shallow person.
2006-12-30 12:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love shouldn't be about looks, (yes it's a plus) but it's really whats inside that counts.
2006-12-30 12:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by CSA_NP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its wrong to judge a person by their appearance. so before u say no to a person thats over wheight, get to know them first instead of judging them. u might find out that u love this person.
2006-12-30 12:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by dark_phoenix002 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
try looking at his personality. not his weight, i used to do the same but i tried looking at their personality and often you get better guys
2006-12-30 12:40:12 · answer #10 · answered by beautiful 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋