About 3 years ago, I was with the love of my life, well somethings changed, he was being sent to iraq, and I had to move to a different state. He promised we would be together, and that he would come get me, as soon as he could. Well I moved first, and about 3 months later, he started to not answer his phone when i called, ect.. I finaly talked to him, and we argued, but at the end of that argument, we were cool, we said we loved each other, and hung up. That following day, he was back at it, not answering his phone when I would call, then one day he answers and says, we broke up stop calling him. So for the next 3 years I have not heard from him. Although I thought about him alot, always wondering if he was safe, or did he make it back okay. One day, i seen him online I sent him an email and he didnt respond. I got fed up and moved on. Now im having these dreams of us getting back together. Then i think of him all over again..and the pain returns. why is this? and can it stop? help!
2006-12-30 12:36:57 · 2 answers · asked by trudywannabe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not certain what the word 'dream' means in your account. Do you mean sleeping dreams? We are for the most part selves divided against ourself: the Judgment is negative, the Will is positive. Persistent Will picture-thoughts are not inhuman, rather defining human. Your unconscious is positive, this is a good thing, but the picture-thought is past. You need a new one. I believe you are able to do that.
2006-12-30 13:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by Psyengine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's time to move on.Obviously you are bothering him.He's told you it's over.Dreams are fanciful and most of the time a figment of you imagination.Find someone who respects you.There's better fish in the sea than ever came out of it.Good Luck and have a prosperous and Happy New Year.From me to you and yours
2006-12-30 12:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋