I liked this guy ever since he stepped into my school but, he completely ignores me and he treats me like trash....you?
2006-12-30 12:34:22 · 32 answers · asked by *~Kendra~* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm pretty sure everyone has had their heart broken at some point in their life. If this guy keeps treating you that bad, as hard as it may be move on becuase he's not worth your time. If he treats you this bad right now just imagine how he'll be if you would ever end up with him. I can kind of relate to your story because a couple of years ago I really liked this guy but he would continually make me feel bad by making fun of me. A few months later I discovered that everything bad he said to me was because he really liked me. He made fun of how I was (personality wise) and how I looked but one day his dad told me that all he did was talk about how awesome I was and how different I was among all the other girls. Still, as much as I liked him I realized that was still no way to treat me and he was not worth being with him. What guaranteed me that he would change or that I could change him because as girls we sometimes stick around the person we like in hopes that they change...but they don't and if they do most of the times its for the worst. Find a guy who will capture your heart from the beginning but the right way and for all the right intensions. Your worth much more than that. From experience I tell you this works as I now have been in a loving relationship for 1 year and 3 months with someone who captured my heart by being a true gentleman and not by being a jerk who didn't know how to value me. My final advice to you is to use your wisdom and be careful upon whom you set your eyes upon because if not you could end up hurting more than if you hadn't let the wrong guy go from the beginning. I really wish you the best!!!
2006-12-30 12:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by Ivanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used too reach in and grab the girls heart, play with it and then set it on a shelf somewhere and forget about it... didn't realize the damage I was doing till she did the same thing too me... it took years to get over that......hmmmm.... just because he is ignoring you is not a totally bad sign... he isn't ready for you or may never be... but he may be ignoring you because of peer pressure etc...
he may actually like you... but treats you like that because he thinks it cool etc.. and or doesn' t know how too act around you, guys do the stupidest things.... (been there, done that)
It may be years down the road when you two bump into each other that he realizes how neat you really are and what opportunity he had missed...
sometimes our prayes aren't answered about the person we think is perfect.. and usually that is a good thing... sometimes it just wasn't ment to be kind of thing...
don't let him trash you, let him know his comments hurt, if he sees he has an impact on you he may realize how immature he is being...
the male at this age isn't mature most of the time to think past the end of the day or football game or what ever... don't take it personal... as you sound very mature and smart... two good qualities but would hardly be notice nor appreciated amongst monkeeys...
2006-12-30 12:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes, lol. i liked this guy a lot freshman year. we were like best friends and we talked and i thought he liked me to. we had everyone fooled that we actually dated! but then the day i told him how i felt, feeling confident, it went ok...he said no, but i thought we were still friends. and we still were. but then about 2 weeks later he did the worse thing u could say about a girl to a friend. he said that i was ugly and that he'd never. i was crushed. that same night, i met the guy ive been waiting 4 in life, lol, at a club meeting. i'd liked him b4, but now i liked him more. he was a shy guy and we actually made conversation that he started! we been cool ever sense and im working on telling this guy how i feel even after being crushed. moral: dont waste your time on this guy. u deserve better. i got treated like trash and it burned. but u gotta find the strength to move on. hey before you know it the guy of ur dreams who's really right for u just might show up! good luck
2006-12-30 12:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course my heart's been broken. But if you haven't even been OUT with a guy much less even talked to him, he can't really break your heart - don't let some stranger have that much control of you. He's obviously a jerk if he treats you like trash for no reason - move on and find a NICE guy.
2006-12-30 12:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all part of life to get your heart broken, you gotta learn to live with it and learn from it. If the guy treats you like trash, then obviously he isn't worth your time either. Focus your attention on somebody else. The right one will come around eventually.
2006-12-30 12:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been heart broken and I hope that I never am. I am sorry that someone has stepped on your heart and has allowed your emotions to ruin. I wish you the best in finding true happiness, and I hope you will never experience a broken heart again.
2006-12-30 12:40:44 · answer #6 · answered by Angelbub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I've had my heartbroken before. It hurts for awhile until you meet someone new. I've learned over the years that when a relationship ends it usually means the person wasn't right for you to begin with. They may have had flaws you didn't see before when you were dating them, because you were so in love with them. Sometimes it takes awhile to meet the person who is right for you. Good Luck with everything. I would problely try to find another guy I like if he ignores me.
2006-12-30 12:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by Apy S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has happened to me. Ignore him. He doesn't deserve you. It's just a matter of time and will power, and he will be from the past because if you care for someone and that person doesn't have the same feelings toward you, there isn't really anything there.
2006-12-30 12:45:24 · answer #8 · answered by browneyedgirl90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most people can relate to what you are saying and experiencing. You are certainly not alone. If this is the way he is then he is not worth getting to know so steer clear of him and don't have anything to do with him. Avoid him as much as possible. You should start ignoring him.
2006-12-30 12:39:35 · answer #9 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is full of different people, if this one does not like u ,another will adore u, so it is the chemistry and the attaraction of first time that matters, do not force urself with people who do not care, everyone heart will be broken at a stage but by time, u will be releaved do not concentrate much on him u will forget
2006-12-30 12:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by alsawsana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋