Theres this guy, weve been friends for a while now.. and you can tell we both like eachother. We talk about relationships, and whenever its just us alone at someplace he puts his arm around me... and I kinda want to go further with him.. but I think hes afraid.. how do you make the guy make his move? i dont want to tell him I like him.. b/c I did before, and it just got awkward for a little... and I became a ***** to him... I just wana know how to get him to kiss me or ask me out or something better than just friends.... but I'm pretty sure he likes me
2006-12-30 12:27:21 · 9 answers · asked by Marissa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes you ay just have to let things like that happen naturally. I have someone just like that, we both liked each other, talk on IM about relationships, and would put his arm around me. Last time he came down to visit (he now lives about 200 miles away, we had a class together in college), he greeted me and we kissed. It was really nice to let things happen naturally- at first, things were a little rushed, and we did have some problems- take it slow- and things should work out.
2006-12-30 12:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by cnuswte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex left me because her feelings for me went away, and while I spent two years trying to move on, she dated other guys and forgot about me completely. Usually the pain isn't mutual after a breakup. She moved on quickly because she was already over me when she dumped me. I'm sorry that it happened to you, and I'll try to lend a hand. When I got dumped, I sat in the hole of darkness for a week or so, then crawled out and looked for some new things to do. The first gesture was symbolic. I cut all my hair off in mourning, just for the hell of it. I got a new job and worked a lot, and I bought a lot of used books and music. Mostly records, since I was broke as a joke. I wrote a lot of letters and revamped a lot of dying friendships. And chiefly, I broke contact with my ex. Boom, out of my life. That helped a lot. It's all about you now, not him, so if you don't want to be pulled back by a painful heart-wrenching "friendship," make it clear as crystal that you aren't interested. See what I'm saying? Do whatever you need to do to move on, and don't be talked out of it. Take no prisoners, and if a bridge looks good to burn, burn the ****** down. Good luck!
2016-05-22 22:18:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is just SHY.... if he is hanging around you...
you may have to take another risk and step forward... next time your alone and you feel there is an attraction together... ask him if he would like too kiss you?
this will kind of knock him off balance a bit... but he may recover if you look him into his eyes when you ask him...
this is a bit.. fresh ... for some guys .. but hey... you may be waiting for a long time otherwise.... the opposite may happen though.. if you push too hard he may put his tail between his leg and run... but i don't think so... if he likes you he may go for the kiss idea..
2006-12-30 12:32:59 · answer #3 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well if ur sure he like u.... u can always make the first move urself.... there is nothin wrong w/ that.... wen the 2 of u r alone just look into his eyes.... just dont say anything.... just look at him n kiss him.... but if u r too scared to do that... i guess u cud always just wait.... which may take a while.... u cant make him do anything..... but maybe u cud try just looking into his eyes wen the 2 of u r alone like i sed earlier n maybe, just maybe he will kiss u first instead..... but hun, if hes too scared or shy..... ur just gonna hav to wait unless u make the first move urself... sry chick but thats pretty much the way it works.... if u hav another question just let me know...
2006-12-30 12:35:07 · answer #4 · answered by <3_*~kiLLeR_kiSsEr~*_<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about ask him what his intentions are for your relationship? I am not sure what five-letter word you blanked out was, but you should not avoid talking with him. Communication is essential for a healthy relationship.
2006-12-30 12:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by Patrick C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should just make the first move
2006-12-30 12:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by Sabrina N 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well unfornitly you can't make him, if you want to go out with him then you as him.
2006-12-30 12:34:19 · answer #7 · answered by PerfectlyinLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell him again that u like him. good luck and have a happy new year.
2006-12-30 12:33:27 · answer #8 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Smile at him.
2006-12-30 12:29:56 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋