We are extremely serious and have a strong connection, but lately I've been interested in taking a break for a few reasons. The hard part is that he is amazing and he is not the reason for my desire to take a break. I want the break because we've been together for years and I want to remember what it is like to be single again. I know it may sound ridiculous, but I've been thinking it through for half a year, and if I've been pondering about it, it must mean something. We've been together since I was 16 and I'm scared of being 30 with children with the same person I've been with since I was 16! How can I do this without breaking his heart? And, how can I go on a break and ensure that he will want to be with me again?
2006-12-30 12:10:04 · 1 answers · asked by Dan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe that you really need to pin point your wants and needs because it sounds like you want to put your boy friend on the shelf, safe and sound until you are ready to come back and claim him. in the real world this doesn't happen. also you need to think about the consequences of such a traumatic move on your part, the grass is not necessarily greener on the other side, I can not advise you either way because you must be aware of the pluses as well as the minus side to your decision, just make sure it is well planned in either event
2006-12-30 12:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋