Am i being stupid?

Question

for the past week my boyfriend's been going out everynight, coming back at gone 4 am, bringing his best friend back without telling me and then for the whole day him n his friend take the piss out of me. last nyt was the last straw as he came back going on about 4 or 5 different girls. i got jealous and told him that i was. he told me it was nothing to worry about and i was just being stupid. tonight he's just told me he's not coming home. I've told him to use tonight to think if he really wants to me with me or not as i'm pregnant and i'd rather get my head sorted out b4 the baby comes along. does he still care or is he cheating?

Answer 1

I can't answer that question for you I'm afraid but I don't think you are being stupid. It sounds as though this is rather out of character from the way you describe it so maybe he is reacting in a strange way about being a dad and trying to act carefree knowing that he will have responsibilities to deal with soon?

I think talking to him about it is the best thing to do and to tell him how you feel, but give him the chance to be honest from his point of view too.

I hope it all works out really well for you. Stay calm and look after yourself most importantly.

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