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How do i have to be and what do i have to say to a girl that i like??

2006-12-30 11:57:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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do you like someone in particular or do u just want a girlfriend to have a girlfriend....if its the second thing...just stop now...because that's a really dumb reason to get into a relationship.....but if u like a girl....you can be cutsie and write her a handwritten note telling her how you feel.....or you can make a riddle for her to figure out who you like...or just be straightforeward and tell her how you feel about her and how you'd like her to be your girlfriend...hope it works!

2006-12-30 12:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by Charishma S 3 · 0 0

well this should help :)

Pick a location frequented by a significant number of girls where you feel fairly comfortable, perhaps a place that is conducive to a skill of yours: music, public speaking, or a private intimate conversation.
Scope out the pickings. Pick one or two or three. Keep these in your mind as "potentials".
If you feel you have gotten to know any "Potentials" well enough to ask them out, go ahead and do it, worst thing that could happen is that she says no, and that's her loss. But not you, you've still got the others.
Adapt your appearance. Clean up for a high-class city girl. Dress down for the fun-loving motorbike chick.
Be funny. If you're not naturally funny, don't try too hard around her. Pitch jokes to other people first and see how the jokes do with them. If you get no laughs there, just pray, because it's gonna be hard winning a girl without humor.
Keep up a good posture, walk steadily and smile. Women do not like slouchers. Bad posture gives an air of lack of confidence. Smiling makes a guy more welcoming. A good walking style, (straight back, a hand in the pocket and taking well distanced strides) gives the impression of intelligence.
Talk. Silent guys are annoying. (On the other hand, men who do nothing but talk and never listen are annoying too.)
Look and touch. Looking into a girl's eyes shows respect and interest. A firm handshake, a gentle pat on the back, a light touch of the hand and other subtle gestures allow the girl to feel connected with the guy.
Feel great. The feeling will radiate and affect the lady too.
Don't pretend to be someone you aren't, you may think you will win her round with it but in the end it will backfire. Find a common interest, something you both like. If she likes a band and you don't, lie about it, and listen to them till you change your mind.

2006-12-30 20:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by Boss 6 · 1 0

ok, first you have got to be buff. look at lil wayne in his music video (stuntin like my daddy) for some inspiration. then you have got to get tan. no one will like you if you look albino. i suggest you sit out side ffor an hour on weekends during the middle of the day. then you need to join a sports team because people on the sports teams get respect. whil;e you are doing all of that, you need to be talking to girls whenever you can. flirt with them by making them laugh, complentment them (but not too obviously), and make them feel special. when you find out that you are in love with a girl, talk to some of her friends and ask what she thinks about you. then her friends will tell her that you were asking about her and that will get her thinking about you so then you should ask her out the next day (presuming that you are buff, tan, confident, and have a great flattering haircut, she will say yes.)

2006-12-30 20:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

taking things one step at a time might help if you see a girl you like just say hi and talk to her for a miniute once yall have talked for about a week then ask her to sit by you at lunch or something then gradually ask her out

2006-12-30 20:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

just b urself hun thats all u can do b urself b honest theres no 1 better 2 b! if she dont like u 4 hu u r then stuff her there a nice girls out there u just gotta find them! gd luck

2007-01-03 13:49:57 · answer #5 · answered by blossom 3 · 0 0

I depends on the girl. Find out what she likes and see if you like those things as well. You can't make anyone like you. Be yourself and just be polite and nice.

2006-12-30 20:05:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

just be yourself and compliment her. if you want to ask her to be your girlfriend, make sure that you guys went out a few times already and tell her how you truly feel about her.

2006-12-30 20:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Don't be anything other than yourself and say what you think or are feeling. Don't mislead a girl and don't compromise your own integrity.

2006-12-30 20:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by Urbangirl 2 · 0 0

Dress very nicely.
Smell good.
Pay for her first meal.
Drive a nice car.
Make lots of money.

2006-12-30 20:17:39 · answer #9 · answered by Karen S 1 · 0 0

i guess it would help if we knew you guys. tell her shes hot. tell her you like her cloths. notice if she changes something about herself and comment on it. make her feel like a princess.

2006-12-30 20:02:51 · answer #10 · answered by mdlrtam 2 · 0 0

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