its my boyfriend. hes just gone out to meet up with his sister, her boyfriend and her friend (male). he called the housephone by mistake and i listened on and heard him say ' im just out for a ride' i called him back and asked him about what i heard and hes turned his phone off. wot do you reakon??
2006-12-30 11:53:14 · 15 answers · asked by shonkamur 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i did hear his sister in the background though..
2006-12-30 12:02:37 · update #1
Think positive dont go to the negative and think that he's cheating. try think happy thoughts and ask him whats going on instead of jumping the gun. good luck and have a happy new year.
2006-12-30 12:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by Joho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say he sounds like he's up to no good. I am certainly not going to defend him just because I am another bloke. There's no way I would ever cheat.
I guess you need to not jump to conclusions at first but then obviously consider how you will react if the worst is found to be true and he is playing you around.
Trust is a very big thing in a relationship and if there are any doubts that you are unable to resolve, then things may not be pleasent. Also consider whether he was really seeing his sister or not. That could have just been an excuse.
On a lighter note he could have a reasonable explanation for the whole thing but turning his phone off on you has guilt written all over it :-(
I've been cheated on and messed about so I know how it feels. I really feel for you and I hope you are able to be happy one way or another.
Good luck M xxx
2006-12-30 12:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would have said that it sounded all innocent until the time when u asked him about it and he turned his phone off, sounds a bit weired but i would ask him again next time u see him and just see what his face is like when he answers u, u cant tell these things when ur talkin over the phone.
not sayin you dont trust him, but the next time he wants to go 'out for a ride' ask him if u can go with him, if hes up to nothin then he should gladly want u to go with him, its not as if ur gonna be the only girl there if his sister goes along.
good luck hun and keep smilin xxx
happy new year xx
2006-12-30 12:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by kitteekatt 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IT seems as though you don't trust him.Nothing you can do to stop someone from being unfaithful if that is what they want to do.Stop looking and checking up because it isn't going to solve a thing . If he is and you ask and he lies, nothing you can do to get the truth from his lips until he realises honesty
2006-12-30 13:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by MissCherokee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm....tis a bit ambiguous, a ride can mead lots of things, "I'm just along for the ride" isn't sexual. Also it could just be male bravado. Showing off with no real intention...but then again....
Also why are you not out with him?
2006-12-30 12:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he`s out in a car freaking out about the mistaken call, confront him tomorrow, I`m sure all will be fine.
he made a silly phone call that's all.
2006-12-30 12:02:40 · answer #6 · answered by fluxpattern® 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to call his sister and find out if his "plans" w/ his sister are for real! Or maybe he just needed space to be a stinky guy!!
2006-12-30 11:57:35 · answer #7 · answered by luvnlife 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe he just out having fun dont jump to any conclusions with out knowing for sure
2006-12-30 11:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by Vader 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
go and get yourself into a relasionship you deserve, your not in the right one now. best of luck girlfriend.x Your a woman of the world my bird so stand and be strong, independent and beautiful
2006-12-30 12:01:14 · answer #9 · answered by oldshoespoetry 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kick him to the kerb, He`s obviously not worth it. And you are worth better.
New Year New fella,
Good Luck
2006-12-30 11:56:22 · answer #10 · answered by Tink 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋