Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now. He is EVERYTHING to me and i would definitely do anything for him. He is always working and sometimes I am not able to talk to him because he is busy. But when he gets home, he throws his arms around me and says that he missed me a whole lot. But when he is gone, I really worry that he is with one of his wierd man whore friends that has a new girlfriend every day and it really scares me. I have talked to him about it and he says that he wont ever do me wrong and that I should trust him. It is not that I DONT trust him, it is just because he is a really good looking guy and I love him a whole lot!!!!!!! I have never felt this way about someone ever before in my life. We have been through a whole lot of **** together, so I know that he cares for me because he has put his life on the line to be with me. He means more than anything to me so irls, please PLEASE HELP me out on this one!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-30 11:51:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You say you trust him, but you really dont, or this would not be an issue. The one who needs to mature here is you.
2006-12-30 11:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by Rick R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you know he really loves you and you really love him then trust him, dont worry because your the one that has him and your the one that he comes home to. Sounds like he does really love you, so stop worrying so much, just relax and enjoy him and his company. That is normal that you think that way and it is probably because you care about him so much, just don't stress over little things, If you know he is not doing anything to you and you really do trust him then dont doubt him, don't worry, you'll be fine! Good luck hun!
2006-12-30 19:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by vwbabe7463 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a matter of trust. He will lose interest in you if you keep worrying about him and play the jealous card and be all attached. Guys like girls that can give him a chase. If you take that away and fall in his arm every day, you will lose him.
2006-12-30 19:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by Benson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a girl but if he has done alot for you in the past to stay with you then you need to have a little bit more faith in him. But only time will tell, Be sure you sins will find you out. and if he is cheating on you then you will find out sooner or later. My suggestion to you is live everyday you have with him like it is the last day you have with him.
2006-12-30 19:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by Garin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you do worry too much. You DON'T trust him if you don't believe him when he says that he will not do you wrong. If you trusted him, you would believe his words. If he loves you, a girl could throw herself on him naked and he wouldn't do anything because he loves you and he wouldn't do anything to intentionally hurt you.
2006-12-30 19:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Basically, if he is giving you absolutely no reason to doubt him, then you must acknowledge that this is your own insecurity and your own issue to deal with. Otherwise, it will probably get old to him trying to prove himself to you and it may destroy your relationship. A good decent relationship is built partly on trust and honesty.
2006-12-30 19:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be worried that you weren't because it is always a good idea to see with your eyes wide open so there aren't any future surprises. If he hasn't given you a reason to distrust him, then don't.
2006-12-30 19:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey dont worrry! its probably just some little thing thats bothering you..and besides if he is cheating on you then you know it is the end and he wasnt worth your time! just doo a lil snooping around and see where it goes from there...GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-30 19:58:53 · answer #8 · answered by WOAHbabay its krissy! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get some counselling to address your feelings of insecurity which do not seem to be based in reality.
2006-12-30 20:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
2006-12-30 19:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋