i feel like all my life i have always misjudeged people. make that boys. and when they leave i regreat a lot. and even though i try to move on i make the same mistake. what can i do to stop myskef from judging people the wrong way?
2006-12-30 11:43:18 · 13 answers · asked by no longer caligirl. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by now i have mistaked about 5 guys and i am only 16.
2006-12-30 11:43:45 · update #1
Always take a while to know them,just because you think they are a certain type of person,doesn't mean it is true. Talking can also help a lot too. Communication is very important to keep a strong relationship,because talking about your problems,and concerns can help get rid of small problems that can be solved quite easily. Good Luck!!
2006-12-30 11:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by Jeremy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
More to life and bigger regrets to come than whether or not you are keeping boyfriends. You are only 16 (why do kids always put "only" in front of their ages?), anyway, why not live life rather worry about who you are dating go out have fun being single then what will happen will boys will come natural. Stop this analysing of boys you will probably get on better with them. Being single is not a disease and is freedom and fun.
2006-12-30 11:46:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try working out where you went wrong wright them as points on a peice of paper. People misdjuge people all the time and most end up with the wrong person. Its a shame that this happens, but unless you really think of what you are doing wrong and admitt it to yourself it wont change
2006-12-30 11:47:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have alot of time .im 19 and i do the same .dont worry if a guy really likes you and his in it for the real reasons his gonna try and change your way of thinking .when i was your age i was in a bad relationship and after that i always misjudged any guy that tryed to get close but then i met my boyfriend and he stayed around and showed me that he was a good guy and he changed my mind.dont worry about it .the right guy will change your mind one day .
2006-12-30 11:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a break from boys, get to know yourself first before you attempt a relationship. Also it wouldn't hurt to dedicate more of your time to school and learn how to spell and write. Communication skills are one of the most important things in any relationship.
2006-12-30 11:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you make a chart about the boys you have misjudged, and see what similarities they had. Be logical about this, and compare what you thought was good and bad about them, and then you can use that baseline as a reference the next time you are looking at someone. Good luck!
2006-12-30 11:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by Genius Squirrel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First stop judging and remember to have fun. Don't give too much away, make them want to know the real you. Have them do alittle work in getting to know you.
Second, you just found 10 ways that don't work....keep trying and don't be so hard on yourself. Chin high and smile.
2006-12-30 11:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by Northernlady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so hard on yourself! I'm sure you're a wonderful human being and you are learning! Now is the time to date, have fun and shop around. HAVE FUN!
2006-12-30 11:48:11 · answer #8 · answered by M C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Practice makes perfect girl!! Just don't "practice" too much or you'll misjudge Mr. Right! Then again, Mr. Right would understand and love ya anyway!!! Stay Positive!!!!
2006-12-30 11:50:41 · answer #9 · answered by luvnlife 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take a step back and re-assess your wants and needs. Take things slow and don't get talked into anything.
2006-12-30 11:45:59 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋