well this special guy that ive like 4 a long time asked me out the other day and i said yes and i am already in love with him...we talk on the phone a lot we get along great but theres just one thing...he hasnt told me he loves me yet...am i doing somthing wrong? im afraid he doesnt love me back...wut should i do??? please help me!!!
2006-12-30 11:21:19 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ah, a high-speed romance. In another week your question will be "we have been going out for a week and he has not asked me to marry him...wut should I do???"
You obviously have no concept at all what love is all about. Give it a year or two then come back again and ask it over again.
2006-12-30 11:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be glad that he hasn't said it. Nowadays, so many people just say "I love you" like it's a casual thing. Love is something that takes time, and when a person truly begins to love another person, then they are ready to commit to marriage.
Someone you have been going out with for two or three days is not in love. He is interested in you, though. Get to know each other, talk, and do things together. Don't be so impatient. Just enjoy being with him for now, and maybe someday in the future, he will be able to honestly say that he loves you.
2006-12-30 11:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by Yuka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down it's only been a few days he probably just wants to take it slow and not rush into anything before you guys are ready. Even if you liked him for a long time doesn't mean HE's ready to say the L word. Just give it time.
2006-12-30 11:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only been a coule of days!!! Chill out, the expression "i love you" is thrown around too much.u have to realize that to fall in love takes time. Im sure, from the way u describe it, he will fall in love with u. Just be patient
2006-12-30 11:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by Michael G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-26 01:55:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to fall in love. dont mistake love for infatuation. You love the thought of him but do you really know everything about him so soon. SLOW DOWN before you get hurt or freak him out and drive him away. keep your feelings to yourself, things are to new between you two to say your in love.
2006-12-30 11:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by msfitz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it takes long for a guy to say tht
its a big thing for us
hee wants to make sure he IS feeling love and not somethin else
giv it sometime
he will realize he is in love and will try to build up the courage to say it
2006-12-30 11:24:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you have known each for awhile you just started dating. What the rush ? Give it time to come naturally. If you start pushing him on this he is going to think you are nuts and you will never see him again.
2006-12-30 11:26:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the first post. love does take time. He might like you and not reilise he loves you or something. good luck thought, and love is not exactly something some one so young should think about. Love is something not like a first bf. but a marigage. Etc. Forget it.
2006-12-30 11:24:46 · answer #9 · answered by Screen Name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, please...
Why don't you go leave the poor boy alone already.
Ya see... this is why men refuse to commit. Going out with a girl for only a few days, and she already wants him to her that he loves her.
What an idiot.
2006-12-30 11:25:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋