this is so confusing. help?

Question

theres this one guy that i like so much but there are so many problems. i don't kno if he likes me, but when he walks, he walks near me, and everytime his sister comes over [my friend] he comes with her, and he asks his sister about me, he asks me 2 put me on my top friends on myspace, he puts me on his top 4 on myspace, he always sit by me whenevr my mom invites them over for dinner, and all those examples i gave you might seem like he likes me 2, but anytime in church or something, he doesn't really talk to me, he doesn't really show that he likes me, he never flirted with me, and in real life, it seems like just coincedence. he has so much in common with me. he likes everything i like, and even he has the same problems as me. and he's not trying to be like me, he just am. and he has the same secretes, like he likes a kiddie show and i like it 2, and everything. he never really tried to be my friend, i guess we just am, knowing each other for so long. now, we're kinda friends now,

and i really really like him. he doesn't like 2 give out personal information, but he asks me when my birthday is, he try to hang around me though. he is just so sweet to me but im not sure if he likes me. he's about a year older than me, 9 months, so, what can i say? i need to know if he likes me or not, and i need to know how, and i really like him, but does he like me as much?







thanx ppl, for all that answers the question. but this is really confusing, and i told my friends, they say it's poisening my mind, i really like him so help, i need to kno if he doesn't like me so i ccan get on with my life, or wait for him i need help and im desperate, thanx

Answer 1

Well from whta you ahve said I would move on if I was you because he's a fag. Or else hw would have already tried to make a move on you seeing he's always around you. What you need to do is talk with him and tell him how you feel and find out if he feels the same about you. He might surprise you when he says he's a fag.

Answer 2

Well it just seems like he wants to be your friend.

Just by sitting near you all the time and wanting to talk to you doesn't mean he likes you. And if your his friend and comes over for dinner, DUH he would want you on his top friends list! If he's never flirted with you, chances are its just a good friendship.

Lemme give you an example:
I have this friend who I thought liked me just because of all the reasons you said. He even flirted with me. But when I actually asked him, he said no. Sometimes girls mistake boys for liking them if the boy is nicer to them than other guys are. No need to stress over this. If its giving you that bad of a headache, tell a friend to ask him does he like you or ask him yourself. You really shouldnt be stuck on something like that

Oh, and just because you guys have the same interests, that doesn't mean anything. Your friends have the same interests as you right?

Answer 3

Chances are that he at least likes you as a friend. Maybe you should start hanging out with him more (not just with his sister).

If you still think he likes you after a while of being friends with him but that he is too chicken to make the first move then maybe you need to make the first move.

Answer 4

I'll give you this advice. Become friends first, becoming friends leads to being good friends then close friends and then best friends. thats when you need to find out. A strong relationship is best with you best friend. It happened to me and now me and her are engaged. Just don't rush things, and good luck

Answer 5

i know exactly how you feel!!!!!! I'm having the same problem....i guess we're both gonna have to face our fears and talk to them 1on1 and see how they really feel....i guess the worst that can happen is they say they don't feel the same.....but ya'll can still be friends....talking is always best!!!! Hope it all works out for you!!!! Good luck!!!!

Answer 6

What? Everything you wrote was confusing...What do you need help with now?

Answer 7

he likes you

Answer 8

he am? we am?