My brother is 16 and he has a 17 year old friend named Justin. He asked me out but i had a bf. Me and my bf broke up.When he came to visit me again he asked me for a hug then he kissed me on the corner of my lip. The next few weeks after that, he kissed me for real. He told me he likes me but he won't tell my brother because he doesnt want him to make fun of him...plus he's scared of my brother. What should i do about it?He's 17, im almost 15. He lives in omaha and is a senior. i live in bellevue and am a freshman. he said he wont rush things till we get to know each other, but i dont know how long that will last.
2006-12-30 11:00:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do you want us to do, tell you exactly what to do and you'll do it?????? That's pretty stupid. Try following your heart and be smart about what kind of trouble this relationship might get you in.
2006-12-30 11:02:18 · answer #1 · answered by It's Me 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lets just be real about the whole situation ... the kid is 17 and you are almost 15 which really means your 14! my little friend ... tell your brother about the situation . dude has no reason to be hitting on a 14 year old girl . now don't take this as me saying your young or immature because that is not the situation . the situation is that he should be dating females that are at least 16 and older . evidently if he cant find one his own age then he has a major problem.
2006-12-30 19:07:04 · answer #2 · answered by justbeingreal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have two problems. Long distance relationship and Age difference. Before you go any further, you might try to ask him if you can just be friends for a while. He is more mature than you and I don't know if you can handle it. But I have a friend at school and it is the same deal. She is very happy and couldn't have a better boyfriend. You should think about it and then make the best decision. Good Luck!
2006-12-30 19:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by Quetzalcoatl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should not get too involved with him. He is your brother's friend so your brother must know a lot about him and that may be the reason he doesn't want your brother to know about your relation with him. You might ask casually about Justin to your brother with out any specifics and if your brother is smart he will give you something to think about. In situations like these brothers are very protective of their sisters and for a reason I might add. Good luck.
2006-12-30 19:06:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh...maybe I should give you a motto to follow:
"If your brother doesn't know, then you just don't want to go"
heh. Ok I made that up on the spot.
Maybe just slap him and tell him you're going to tell your brother whether he likes it or not. If your brother is angry about it, then there's no reason you should like the guy, but if your brother doesn't care then do what your heart tells you (depending on if you like the kid back or not)
2006-12-30 19:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by DatingZion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...do you like him? If not, then DON'T do anything with him, but if you do... maybe you should tell him to slow it down. It's kind of weird that he likes you when you don't know him. Would you brother be mad about this? You should ask your brother what kind of friend he is and how he acts with girls and stuff..
actually I've kind of thought this over a bit.. you SHOULD tell your brother. He's already kissed you so..
2006-12-30 19:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by Besch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girl, it's up to you if you like him then go with it but make sure it's cool with yoour brother because you don't want things to be weird for your bro do ya?? Ok don't answer that cause you may but still. Just remember to get to know this kid. Plus check with you parents before you go out with him because of the age diff.
2006-12-30 19:04:42 · answer #7 · answered by PerfectlyinLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that this guy doesnt sound very trust worthy if he wont even confront your brother about it. i mean how dumb is that, if he really likes u then he would tell your bro about it. i would probably tell him he needs to tell your brother and see what your bro says about him. other wise i would tell the guy that u need to stay friends for a while until it works out.
2006-12-30 19:06:12 · answer #8 · answered by Emalee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not think you should go for it casue wow that a good fews years apart and he will be gone in less than a year and then u will be in highg school so find anoher dude
2006-12-30 19:10:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's scared of your brother maybe he's got a reason...what do you about this guy? he sure likes you, but take a while to know him too.
2006-12-30 19:05:03 · answer #10 · answered by Tal B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋