should i wait for more crush or rush it?

Question

There is a girl at my church that use to be nice to me when she sees me in school. One time i was really far from her when she called my name so loud. Now she's a little bit unconfortable with me for example when she sees me comin she might turn awy or go in another direction. if we were already close, she either say something to me or i say something to her but i feel like she doesn't have a problem with me. There are a lot of girls at my church that seem to be looking at me and turn away when i catch them but i never really had a conversation with none of them. One time i asked a girl at my church something and she told me that's the first time she ever heard me talk.Yesterday nigh after church, i saw a girl standing by my car. When i got closer, it was the girl i talked about in the begining. She asked me if i had a girlfriend. I smiled and she started smiling. she told me that she has a friend that really has a crush on me. She saw me this morning and she started smiling. Help!!!!

Answer 1

Crush or Rush? Other than while playing football, the only time you should ever rush is to get out of the road when a truck is speeding toward you. Take your time.

From the girl's comment about the first time she heard you talk, I think that you might need to start talking to people more often. Get comfortable enough to at least say Hi to someone.

Adult relationship as based upon trust and common interests. These are built through conversation. If you never talk, you can never get to know anyone or to allow them to get to know you.

Open your mouth and let the words come out. Say Hello. Nice weather (or poopy weather as the case may be). That is a lovely dress. I really enjoyed the sermon. I thought that I saw you the other day. What school do you go to or are you home schooled? What you say may not be as important as saying something so people will know that you can talk.

I do not mean that you should have a conversation with absolutely everyone you run into, but at least start talking to those that you have some interest in or attraction toward. That is the reason for the feelings: to get you to do something about them.

Answer 2

if you like her go 4 it if not then tell her the truth