I am black,I meet this guy I slept with him due to acohol. Then deiced i didn't want to see him again because he talked like he had been dragged up - and was bascally jobless & just a waste of space but pretty at the same time.
He kept on textin me & i ignored him then he TX & said that he had given me an STD I called him and he told me he was lying and he felt that i was using him cos i never TX him back thats why he said it. I forgive him for that, I TX him Merry Crimbo he TX back that he was spending Crimbo alone and could he come round to mine i wanted to invite him round but my mates said no because he is a wanker for saying wot he did.
My Question is should i look past him being such a loser and just be with him. 99% of me says no the other 1% says yes i can change him
2006-12-30 10:55:34 · 20 answers · asked by deb_star_82 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you saying that it's wrong for me to be with a WHITE guy cos i am BLACK. You people make me ashamed to be black because i know the guys that have commeted on this are BLACK them selfs
2006-12-30 11:01:32 · update #1
I am not racist otherwise why would I go with someone out of my own race. I am from the UK and there are 2 types of chav here - crimbo means xmas
2006-12-30 11:04:03 · update #2
oh my god u make me almost ashamed to be black ur an idiot martin luther king must be rolling in his grave
2006-12-30 10:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Hi for one thing if you dont like him then just forget about him dont use him. For one thing your slagging him of saying hes to ghetto and white, whatever that means. But you where the one who was hanging around with this too ghetto white lad and got drunk and slept with him then chuked him to the curb, so i dont think you have room to talk bout him this way ,he being dragged up and jobless, so what if he is, if you are in a relationship you should like him the way he is, and you shouldnt try to change him. Give the guy a break and to find a girl that likes him.
You just feel sorry for him. Its not him that is in the wrong. Why has he even got your number if you dont like him, he obviously likes you as he was texting you all the time.
How is he such a loser. Because hes white, talks ghetto which you mean chav, and is jobless. When he text you about the STD he was angry at you for using him and if you knew lads they try and do anything to say to hurt you because you hurt him.
I think you might want to change your attitude to the opposite sex and how you go about trying to sleep with someone, Alcohol is no excuse.
2006-12-30 19:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Black King Of All White Women" is a fukin hypocrite, jus read his fukin name! I'm Indian, so my view is unbiased when it comes to race - we get enough racism ourselves, so don't giv that b*stard a second thought.
Anyway, I think you should go for it, just incase it IS the right choice - just don't depend on it to work out, cuz from ur 99% doubt it probably won't. But at least, if u give it a shot, you won't spend the next couple of months thinking "what if?...". You sound like a clever girl, so you should end up figuring out pretty quickly whether or not you're gonna get anywhere with this dude.
Good luck wid it, anyway... x
2006-12-30 19:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off..."Black King Of All White Women" What a knob. Either a troll, or so stupid he bends light!
Secondly Why do you have to start your post "I am black"? What does that have to do with the price of fish? What does the colour of your, or his skin have to do with anything? It just confuses the issue and lets morons like "Black King Of All White Women" spout his rubbish.
Right to the actual question....The guy is a Chav and a right bit of work, scum, trash, filth...etc... anyone who claims to have given someone an STD as a chatup line should rot in hell, and for the life of me I cannot see where you find this 1% of pity for him. He is gutter swill and you will never change him. PLEASE don't try. Please just change your mobile number and don't let him worm his way into your life, he sounds like a wife beater in the making
2006-12-30 19:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you feel he isnt good enough and he is jobless and a waste u should just forget him. if u reall dont thinks he is good enough, then dont wast ur time with him. u need a man who has good morals, know how to handle his business, and a man whos parents have taught him well. this dude ur talking about sounds like a bum to me. thats why he spent "Crimbo" alone b/c for SOME reason he dosent have friends.
2006-12-30 19:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by GaMi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He txt you saying he gave you and STD which then turned out to be a lie and you're even considering going back with him?
Hardly a good way to start a relationship is it?
Forget about him and go find someone else, you CLEARLY have no respect for him either and you sound like a bit of a racist snob anyway otherwise you wouldn't even mention colour.
2006-12-30 18:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Race isn't the important issue here, it's standards.
If you think he is a loser with no prospect of changing then quit now while it's easy.
Staying with him because he is "pretty" is shallow and I think you would be letting yourself down by doing that.
Good luck, whatever you decide.
2006-12-31 09:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by Great Eskape 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell us that you are black to put us in the picture and so that we don't think you are some racist white chick calling this guy "too ghetto" - I GET IT, WHY DOESN'T ANYONE ELSE?!!!! Of course you are not racist, babe. Ignore Black King of the knobs .
Tell this guy that you got tested and that you're pregnant - watch the dust fly...good luck
2006-12-30 21:08:43 · answer #8 · answered by Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why tell people that you are black, this has nothing to do with your race.
After what he did he so does not deserve you babe so be strong and cut him out of your life for good. There are so many more guys out there just waiting for a cool gal like you to walk into their lives.
Good luck xxx
2006-12-30 20:01:58 · answer #9 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lets start of by saying this you might want to get tested anyway. secondly you cant change anybody the have to want to change that is something they have to do own there own. third he sounds like a dirtbag to me byt he following quilties he possess jobless, he take advantage of girl while they are drunk, and for him be joking about giving you a std. it sounds like you need to listen to 99% that is telling you no.
2006-12-30 19:03:26 · answer #10 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't compound your foolhardiness by staying in touch with this loser. I cannot believe that anyone has casual sex without a condom!
That is a white man's opinion.
2006-12-30 19:22:32 · answer #11 · answered by Clive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋