My engagement with my fiance is over as well as the relationship. She made the decision about that but with her words kinda made me feel that there is hope still as there is true love still. I am feeling lonely, angry, guilty, hurt (as I am sure she is) and feel inclined to write her an email saying that I respect her decision even though it is very very hard to accept. I want to say that I truly love her and am willing to work/talk through things (this didn't happen when she broke off with me) maybe after some time and the dust has settled being open to both yes or no answers and that she can contact me if she wishes otherwise I will let it go. Is this healthy, is this hope good, am I setting myself and her for other huge disappointments or am I being honest and giving her the option to reciprocate if she wants? Does she want to hear this? Tell me what you see.
2006-12-30 10:50:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can only try. It will be a tough time for you regardless, because you will be thinking of the what if's and that could lead to further dissapointment. Love can be a great thing but it can sometimes make you feel that you want to crawl under a rock.
Hang in there. Give it a try, discuss why she came to this conclusion.
Good luck
2006-12-30 10:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just not that into you; why try to settle ; she gave you a message now hear it loud and clear that is the hard part; move on and find a love that is into you; she let you out before more misery set in ; be thankful for what you had and now look to the future (don't look behind) run to a new life , a new you and a new love who just can't wait to be into you!!! - don't settle for less - learn and move on to a great future not a lousy past
2006-12-30 18:54:15 · answer #2 · answered by sml 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're better off letting it go, it happened for a reason. I know, that's very hard for you to hear right now, but think about it this way: New Years is coming up, and you have a great opportunity to wipe the slate clean along with about a billion other people in the world.
2006-12-30 18:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by Detroit Diva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This must be very hard for you.I recently was left after a 4 year relationship so i know how u feel. I am still sad it been 6 months already she left cameback left again and came back noe as of one month she left again it sucks. I really dont think people leave to come back but hopefully you find a better one
2006-12-30 18:58:02 · answer #4 · answered by armando n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would probably be the best thing to do. She made that decision and if she regrets it she will come back. Don't be mean, it isnt worth it. If she really loves you she will come back. If not, then you two weren't meant to be with each other and you will find that special someone.
2006-12-30 18:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by brett v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she made the decision to leave then i wouldnt bother. Once a woman has her mind made up then theres no since in trying. Best wishes and good luck!!
2006-12-30 18:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by ~florida-girl~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont say anything....the last thing you want to hear is that there is some kind of hope...because if she says yes there is then you will be expecting it and living your life around it and that is unhealthy. just move on man, live your life and if she is the one she will be back! good luck bud
2006-12-30 18:53:54 · answer #7 · answered by jdmholdemslick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never met a girl who went back to an ex and it lasted. Sorry bud.
2006-12-30 18:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by teef_au 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it some time. then i would try and talk too her. maybe ask her out too a nice fancy restaraunt or something. but dont go too far and seem desperate or anything.
2006-12-30 18:54:21 · answer #9 · answered by Dara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell her what you need to tell her, you will feel better afterwards. You can wait for her to come back, but don't wait too long.
2006-12-30 18:53:32 · answer #10 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋