There is this kid in my school and he is blind. He likes me and i know it cause my best guy friend is his best friend. So anyway i like him to but the thing is i don't know what i should do go out with him or not. He talks to me all the time and were good friends but i don't know if he really likes me or if he is just trying to get someone?
Also my friend told me that it doesn't matter if he can see you or not he likes you for who you are.
2006-12-30 10:41:58 · 16 answers · asked by Geena 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should completely disregard the blind thing and see how you both feel about each other. I am not being judgemental or rude by saying this but I just want to make you think about it in a different way....if you go into this relationship thinking he is with you because you were the best he could get because of his 'problem' it is not going to be a very fair relationship anyway. You will always resent him thinking that you did him a favor by being there. Kind of like you will feel like you are in control of the relationship etc. When in fact every day we enter into relationship with people who are overweight, short, tall, stutter, missing a finger.....it has nothing to do with them settleing for someone because of those facts. It is because we are attracted to those people for who they are. So yes, I think if he says he likes you that he probably likes you for you.
2006-12-30 10:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by smilechaser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give him a chance. Chances are he likes you for you. Hey, at least you don't have to worry about him checking out other girls on your date. :)
I honestly think he likes you, why not he talks to you all the time so he's bound to like you. I don't think he's just trying to get with someone. I think he's trying to get with you. Go for it.
2006-12-30 18:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by UnknownJaneDoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he likes u and he cant see u then u know he likes u for u not ur looks!!!!and girl i dont know if u have noticed but thats a good thing if he likes u and u like him go out with him give him a chance
2006-12-30 18:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by monkeygirl777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him and he asks you out...then go.
In the meantime continue to be his friend and let the relationship develop naturally. No rush.
2006-12-30 18:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by BRENDA 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he wants go out to the movies. See what he says.
2006-12-30 18:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your options open. One advantage you have if this person likes you is he's attraction for you is not superficial. It goes deeper than just physical attraction. You just have to be able to accept all his shortcomings and dissability. You also have to be certain in your heart that you like him for who he is and not just sympathizing with his handicap.
2006-12-30 18:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by Mando 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give em a chance
2006-12-30 18:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may like you, you probaly know more, but all i can say is that, yes this will be true love as he can't see you and you know that he is not liking you because of your looks. good luck
2006-12-30 18:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by Linux7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend is right. i doesn't matter if he can see or not if you want to go out with then do it but if you don't then explan i ust want to be friends.
2006-12-30 18:45:55 · answer #9 · answered by klutz ;) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend is right you shoul take him out to eat then maybe go to an emusment park
2006-12-30 18:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋