Im really depressed about my homelife.Can someone help me?

Question

My mom is depressed and drinks way to much,my sister is always arguing with someone at my house,my dad has anger and drinking problems.I just need someone to talk 2 because there is no one here that understands.need advice

Im 14 and im in middle school

Answer 1

Buck I so sorry you have to live like this please try and give your age .....without your age its hard for me to give you advice ....but Buck if you are younger than 12 yrs old you need to get out of that house...please listen to me is there someone in your family you can stay with ......or a good friend.....please don;t let them hurt you anymore......if they are physically harming you must call chile abuse hotline in private oh I wish I could help you.......tell me your age ...kara sends a hug......

Answer 2

You don't want to involve the authorities here, because getting everyone into the system is worse sometimes. It is too bad, because you are so young,..do you have any relatives that are normal acting, that would let you come stay with them? Someone like a gramma, or an aunt or uncle, or family friend that would let you stay with them?...Do you have anyone at church to turn to? Many times, someone at church will really be helpful, and keep it in confidence...Little one, there are many people here your age, who can help you...and would love to be there for you...I think you are smart to open up..Iam so sorry that they drink and you have anger all around...maybe you need to be living somewhere else so you can concentrate on your studies...Pray to God and to Jesus, and ask Them to heal your family, it would be good if you could get some help and if it gets tooo bad, then maybe you can talk to someone at school....but pray on it, and I bet you will get your answer...Ask the Lord to help you find what to do...God BLess

Answer 3

wow, I'm 13 and my dad has a bad drinking problem too. My mom's great though. They are divorced, and my sister and I have to live with him half time. Even worse he is selfish, shallow, abusive, insulting, and racist. He also liesmy sister ton more than me. If I were you I would find someone that you are close to and can trust. Not everybody wont understand, some ppl do. I have a twin that understands, and for u maybe a best friend?

Answer 4

If you are old enough and can get a job, go to your own place. Even renting a room from someone is better than the situation you're in. Alcohol is a depressant and just makes depressed people worse. I would suggest family therapy and alcohol intervention, but doubt your family realizes they have a problem. You could go to individual therapy that charges on a sliding scale, which would help a lot.

Answer 5

u didn't mentioned your age and why your mother and father and your sister are angry most of the time. what is the reason behind it.without the full knowledge of your situation i think no body can give u complete and helpfull advice. but i can advice u that by thinking about all this situation and putting all ur concentration on it will give u more tension and noe day u will become like them this is the wrong way. the right way is to concentrate on ur study if ur a teenager and if ur not and have suffient education than go for a job than talk with ur family one by one and also try to help them by consulting good psychitrist or psychologist they can help ur depressed family.

Answer 6

My mom is always ragging about my dad behind his back. My two sisters bicker all day. My dad is passive agressive. Sometimes it feels as if i'm in the middle of it all so i know how you feel. I don't try to change them because they won't but just accept the fact that this is how my family dynamic is going to be. And it'll get better when you move out and only visit occasionally...trust me.

Answer 7

well your mom must be depressed about somthing so if you haven't tlked it out with her yet to see if you can help then maybe that could help and be one solution
but depends on the age
your sister is disagreeing with something going on at the house and needs understanding she probably feels as if though no one is listening to her and her oppinion which might also be your problem to you guys should tlk to each other to sort this out and maybe you guys both disagree with the same things which makes her feel more secure
now your dad with the anger and drinking i'm srry but i can't help on that
but if you need anyone to tlk to my email is [e-mail]

Answer 8

Try and get out of the house, go out with your friends or other members of your family.
You should talk to your school nurse or guidence councellor for support, they will beable to help you through this time in your life.
Stay positive and i'm sure once you start talking to someone you will feel a whole lot better.
Good Luck : )

Answer 9

i understand . i came from a house hold like that.its not your fault
alcohol abuse is a medical disease not an moral issue.my best advise is to find a neutral person out side your home, or a trained
person who can help you deal and cope with the problems at home. i dont know how old you are, but i want you to know that you are not ALONE ! AND ARE NOT TO BLAME!you can also talk to school counsler at school.i know what it is like to come from a tough family and i know the pain and isolation you are going through. trust me it will be ok i know ive been there!!

Answer 10

I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this. I would suggest that you look for an Alanon or Alateen group in your area. Those groups are made up of people who are going through the same problems at home that you are. You can find information about those groups at: http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/