10 months ago i ran into this guy and we hit it off,i was still bitter about catching my ex of a few years cheating(they r mutual freinds)he listened and understood,he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay,i asked him to sleep in the ned with me,he did,i asked him to put his arm around me.he did till i slept,he was such a gentlman,things were awkward when he left the next morning,a mutual freind told me he liked me but was freaked about my ex(who was trying to get me back)i saw this guy again 2 months later,he came to me and said"your killing me"my ex was also there and upset that we liked eachother.I sent him a text a couple weeks later and he never replied.I saw him at a party 6 months later,he walked in with another girl(although they were not'together')he saw me and looked away quick.
2006-12-30 10:26:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no one is "in the wrong" just go with whatever u feel
2006-12-30 10:28:30 · answer #1 · answered by la reina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your single so your not wrong for doing what you did but if you are trying to get with someone then maybe you are. If you are still friends with you ex ok what ever but this other guy likes you and right now he doesn't know what to do tell him how it is and if he still looks away quickly then move on no need to waste your time on someone who cant tell you what he wants
2006-12-30 18:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by loco_sue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are not ready yet for a serious dating relationship with this new guy and you need to tell him that you like him and that you are no longer interested in your ex but that you don't want him to be a rebound guy. Talk it out or move on. Communication is the key to a successful relationship.
2006-12-30 18:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's really no right or no wrong in this situation.
If you really still like him and want to have a relationship with him. Ask him to lunch and tell him how you feel. Make sure it's really over with you ex though first. If it is let him know as well.
2006-12-30 18:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by BRENDA 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about U? did U left your ex-BF? If U are still keep seeing your ex, that is the gentlemen is right. U wrong
2006-12-30 18:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was hoping he could hook up with you but you never made the move and told him how you felt and when you ran into him at the party he felt dumb.
2006-12-30 18:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you brought that one on yourself. Somtimes we put ourselves in situations that we can't explain but whatever his reaction was you were in the lead that time.Don't be upset because you could have told him what was up...
2006-12-30 18:29:42 · answer #7 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you was in the right your ex and the friend was in the wrong
2006-12-30 18:30:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is wrong with this guy.
2006-12-30 18:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIve up, he's not interested. Neither of you were wrong.
2006-12-30 18:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by Pseudo Obscure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋