2006-12-30 10:05:07 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Honestly, I have some doubts about the sincerity of your question. However, if you really see nothing wrong with abortion, you need to take a look at:
Photos and Video of Abortions, Including 1st Trimester Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html
Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm
http://www.lifeissues.org/ultrasound/11weeks.htm
Pain Perception in the Unborn:
http://www.advocatesfortheinnocent.com/fetalpain.html
Abortion Risks:
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
http://www.teenbreaks.com/abortion/complicationsgirls.cfm
Abortion Deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm
Free, Confidential Pregnancy Help:
http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp
2006-12-30 14:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're undecided then you shouldn't do it today. You say you see nothing wrong with it, but deep down inside, I bet you do. Or else you wouldn't be having second thoughts. Consider adoption, there are lots of childless couples out there just waiting for a baby to love. You two need to sit down and talk things over, make lists of pros and cons, look at all of your options, and then decide what to do. Whatever you decide, you already know it will affect the rest of your life, if you go through with the abortion you will probably live with a life-time of guilt.
2006-12-30 18:15:56 · answer #2 · answered by nimo22 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
this is serious ... some couples would give up anything to have a baby and other are just aborting ... if u both r ready to handle a baby dont let go ... but if ur not ready to have a child and feel it was a mistake then all i can say is we all do mistakes and we live with the concequences ... personally i love babies .. am pregnant and concider myself and every mother or mothe to be the luckiest thing ever
if u want the baby and ur sure u can handle the responsibility ... talk to her abou it ... if she is not convinced there most be something esle she is worried about and let her open up to u
best of luck
2006-12-30 18:16:09 · answer #3 · answered by Zeina B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let the baby live, put it up for adoption if nothing comes to how you want.
I've heard many horror stories of women having abortions and leading depressing lives after regretting their decision... it's not so much a religious debate of what's wrong and what's right, but at this juncture... everybody wins. The mother has no baby, the baby has a loving family and home, and nobody goes home upset.
I wish you the best through these times.
2006-12-30 18:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica L 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most people that have an abortion are terribly sorry about it later, and then they are desperate because there is NOTHING you can do to undo killing a baby.
There are thousands upon thousands of people that would love your baby and give him/her a good home.
Also, it has been definitely proven that abortion highly increases the mother's chance of getting breast cancer, even at a young age. I even know of someone who had an abortion at 18, and had breast cancer at 21 or 22.
2006-12-30 18:22:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have an obligation to the life inside her whether you are the father or not! I agreed to my-well-someone very dear to Me's desire to abort; againest my own beliefs and I have lived to regret it. I should have said "NO I will not aid you in this" And I should not have driven her there and I should not have agreed to stand beside her for her need of support!! What about that child's need for life?? What about my conscience in conceding to her will, her wishes, her best interest?? Look at all the suffering and questioning now years later! Oh yes, did I forget to mention; she as well has terrible misgivings about it as well as had horrid dreams of a child calling "Mommie" for years!! No I am not making that up for drama! It's a fact, a very sad fact one that I wish I had interrupted the course of any way I could have. I told her not to do it, that it was so wrong! But my love for this person was so strong I allowed it to over rule my better judgment and morals. By so doing I am forever saddened by my choice and if given opportunity as I am now, to you- I say, "Decide for yourself!, then, tell her your beliefs! then tell her you will do nothing to aid her or console her if she chooses to kill the child" Because- are you living for her or for the life God gave you to live? If it is purely for her wants- then you are not living.
2006-12-30 18:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by Faerie loue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see putting the baby up for adoption as a better alternative. If the baby was created out of love, then I say keep it if you two are going to be together forever and are madly in love. I see a pregnancy as a baby that's already alive, no matter what the doctors say. It didn't ask to be brought into this world, you made it. Please don't kill an unborn baby, there are plenty of people out there that cannot conceive that would love to have an innocent child.
2006-12-30 18:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your undecided then your not ready for either one...give it a few days talk about the options and see what you both think. Its hard because its a baby its part of you and her....theres lots of couples whod love to have a baby.....you need a few more days...goodluck to you
2006-12-30 18:18:48 · answer #8 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are unsure, DONT DO IT, if you cant look after the baby then im sure there are people out there that would help 2 support you 2. remember this is a baby. its hear is beating its growing. but up 2 you guys.
what i would give 2 have my wee girl back after my 20 week miscarrage. i dont wish that hurt and pain of emptyness on anybody.
good luck you 3 you can do it :)
2006-12-30 18:13:14 · answer #9 · answered by tully 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be a man and stand up for and take care of your child , not kill it. I hope you do not get mad, but this is what my Grandmother told my cousin when she got pregnant and was thinking about a abortion " if your b***h enough to get pregnant with all the birth control available , be mother enough to keep it." Hope you two make the right decision. Children are so precious.
2006-12-30 18:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by m c 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋