ok im 17 im like the nicest guy, im not bad lookin, im 5'9, im fit, i dress nice i work i drive, and i dont get it why dont girls like me? why cant i find a gf? im kinda shy so i dont really ask grls out because im scared of bein rejected, but............can some 1 help and i dont want to be old and not have a wife or gf u know?
thanks
2006-12-30
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nice.lol. Well just make sure you have positive body language. Just try to meet people at shops and places. Offer them something or compliment them. Looks arent everything. BUt make sure you check your heart too. If you do everything i said you will have another girl. wow u already got me lol. u do sound great. I would go out with you in a heartbeat. Good luck.
2006-12-30 09:52:37
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answered by Bowchickawowwoww 3
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Maybe 3 reasons why that happens.. first these girls r older than u therefor girls dislike younger boyfriend.. Second they know u r shy guy so most girls dont like a shy guy...OR u r 5'9' look good, nice, and drive and they think u r a player
2006-12-30 18:06:57
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answered by Anonymous
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The problem is that you don't really ask girls out because you're scared of being rejected. You need to put yourself out there. If you do get rejected, hey, look at it this way.... It's their loss, not yours. When the time is right, you will find the right person. Put yourself out there. Go to the mall. Go to youth groups at the church. Hang out in places where girls hang out. Smile and be friendly. Your Mrs. Right will come along!!!!
2006-12-30 17:51:20
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answered by Laura O. 2
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Develope some self confidence. There are shy girls out there that are wonderful just waiting for someone to notice them. So if you get rejected, so what. It is not the end of the world. try again. Good luck.
2006-12-30 17:54:01
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answered by nancy e 4
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You have plenty of time to find a gf. At 17 many girls are immature and don't know a good guy when they see one. Be friendly and nice to everyone. And don't be too picky either. There are lots of Plain Janes who are going to be gorgeous in a couple of years.
2006-12-30 17:52:35
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answered by notyou311 7
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i know the feeling i know im a girl but either way i was scared that i would never get a boyfriend i wasnt shy ecsept around bys so i took and good look at my self and found the curage to ask a guy out...i wass cad of rejection but he said yes so dont be scared ask away
2006-12-30 17:53:12
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answered by none 2
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I'll tell ya from personal experience dude. being shy is whats holding ya back. the honest truth. i spoke to my bf and he said he would have never asked me out if it wasn't for the fact that he asked me out on IM (kinda pathetic but kinda cute) because he was too shy. we are in an awesome relationship and that would have never been if he didn't dig up some courage and ask me out. a lot of good gals think they are ugly and began to hate guys because they are never asked out, when the real story is that the guy is too shy to ask. go for it man, your pride heals and don't you think it's worth it?
2006-12-30 17:55:13
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answered by lmdlcc 2
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Whenever I liked the looks of a girl, I would always ask them out, because wondering for the rest of my life what would have been if she had said yes (and my never knowing) would have been worse than being turned away.
2006-12-30 17:51:44
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answered by Anonymous
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you need to be more outgoing. even just smiling at girls you dont know will spark their interest in you. if you are nice looking and an all around nice guy, why should you be afraid of rejection? just go for it. that way even if you do get rejected, you'll know that girl isnt for you and you wont wonder. email me if you want to talk- spunky_funk18@yahoo.com
2006-12-30 17:52:12
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answered by Ash 3
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One word bro, confidence. all you have to do is not worry and just talk to them. dont worry about rejection because it happens to the best of us, but there is always another girl around the corner. just suck it up and ask out a girl u like, its that easy.
2006-12-30 17:55:56
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answered by Anonymous
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