why should you look at porn if u are married? If your wife is not enough why put other womens looks in your head? if they turn u on and your wife doesn't move on so she can have some one who does find her attractive! I feel I am very pretty and could be with whom I want I chose my husband but porn disgusts me. His family acts as though i'm the only one who feels this way. Am I?
2006-12-30 09:45:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HEY TO THE HULK RESPONSER YOUR NASTY AND OBVIOUSLY NOT GETTING ANY!!! As faor as the question... all men can be pigs if theres a computer near by then trust me theres porn on it
2006-12-30 10:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by SoSpecial 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-20 06:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not the only one that feels that way. A friend of mine, his wife felt the same way as you do. Unfortunately she eventually gave him an ultimatum....she said me or the porn......and he left her. I don't agree with his decision. He told me that he felt that he is a grown man, not a child, and he can look at anything he wants. This is just something for you to think about. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-12-30 09:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women and men view pornography differently. Men don't view it as watching other and better attractive women more, they are programmed to masturbate and procreate. Men are addicted to sex no matter the age or if they are virgins or not. It's just the way men are, women can't change that, and are unable to if they tried. When he watches it he doesn't think "she is hotter" or "she gives better head". All he is concerned about is getting off/and or just watching people have sex. Also, men feel that most women don't want sex as much as they do so instead of hovering over their wifes they resort to porn to get rid of the want of sex or orgasm. It is nothing personal about it.
On a second note, I feel your attitude about this a little selfish and intimidating. Maybe he is scared of you, and because of your bossyness you turn him off and he has no other way but to resort to porn as an alternative.
I agree, women find it insecure and "gross". But the reasons why men do it and why women think men do it are completely opposite.
If you think you can have anyone you want..go for it..but your going to come across this issue with any man you come across. So..how about just taking a breathe..letting it out..and chilling out.
Talk to him. Let him know you don't like seeing him watch it and to do it in another area all together.
2006-12-30 10:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by * Kittles * 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Lot of men and lots of women enjoy porn, pornography has become part of the mainstream of our society. For most men and women pornography is just form of fantasy, it doesn't mean your husband doesn't find you attractive or desireable, watching is more of an escape from reality. Its only a problem if watching porn becomes a substitute for real sex, then that person needs a therapist.
2006-12-30 11:25:28 · answer #5 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-12-30 09:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure all women hate it, but we live in reality. Many, I mean MANY men watch it, and it's not an insult to us. It's not like they love the girls they look at, they just have an urge to do it. I'm sorry things are the way they are, but get over it.
2006-12-30 09:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
I think maybe your a bit insecure. This shouldn't be a problem in a relationship. Hes not with any of them he is with you so enjoy.
2006-12-30 09:56:28 · answer #8 · answered by trace 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
All I can say is get over it. Look on the bright side, he's just watching other people have sex, not having sex with other people.
2006-12-30 09:54:56 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋