My b/f promised to quit smoking when we got together, its been two years now and I feel he has no intentions to stop smoking. I think its gross! It is like kissing a ashtray! 1st he said he would stop when we got together, then he siad he will stop when we move in together, that never happened. Now he says when I get pregnant, well I want healthy sperm to create our baby with. I dont smoke - I think its gross and my teenage daughter will get a cigg from him every now and then. I am not on this earth to change anyone, but I feel it my right to choose what kind of person that I share my life with and I dont want to be with a smoker- its stinks, it tastes yucky when we kiss. We really dont have the $150 a month to spend on cigarettes. We both lost our jobs do to the company contracting out our department and had to start careers all over again.
I really do love him but is the smoking thing just to much for me to deal with or am I wrong and I should just put up with it?
2006-12-30 09:33:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You knew he smoked when you started the relationship. Why is it women always think they can "change" their man. Now I agree that smoking is a gross, disgusting, and harmful habit and that he needs to quit...unfortunately you have painted yourself in a corner here. Tell him you will leave him (and you HAVE TO MEAN IT!!) if he does not stop smoking. He will call your bluff so be prepared. If he does quit he will hold it against you. Good Luck to both of you
2006-12-30 09:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave the mother F*CKER!!!!
He won't change for you. He'd rather stick those fags up his *ss before giving them up! Get a clue B*tch!
And you want a baby by that looser?
You're stupid!
2006-12-30 17:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by tickle me RUDE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he keeps smoking then u should leave him. u dont want a baby who is unhealthy and who has birth affects. good luck and have a new happy new year.
2006-12-30 17:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him just smoke.. smoking is one of the hardest addictions to quit and since you don't smoke you have no understanding in it.. leave him alone and let this go, he wont be able to quit for you and he shouldn't have to :) :) :)
2006-12-30 17:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KILL HIM!!!
2006-12-30 17:38:40 · answer #5 · answered by [WPC] Stewart447 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋