We were supposed to go out again tonight and she hasnt' returned my calls. I know it wasn't me. What's the deal? It's been a week now and she's always returned my calls and has taken lengths to get back to me in the past. I know she's trying to buy a house and it's the holidays but am I kidding myself?
And anyone who wants to be an *** to me about it will lose their account.
2006-12-30 09:02:31 · 18 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude.
You answered your own question. She's all stressed out trying to buy a home and holidays. Let her know you'll be there for her and when everything slows down, the two of you can start dating again. The woman is feeling overwhelmed. Just be there for her to lean on and she'll love you more.
2006-12-30 09:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by David S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's on a trip. If it was a wonderful date, then chances are she had a wonderful date also, or maybe something is holding her back. There's so many factors in this and there could be many different reasons. Don't worry about it until you actually do talk to her and I wouldn't really listen to people's suggestions on here. She may just want to go on another date or maybe she's scared, or maybe she hasn't gotten your calls yet. Who knows, it could be many things.
2006-12-30 09:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her, if she can't return a call or tell you she has other feelings, then just walk away and stop wasting your time. I'm sure the moment you ignore her she'll be back in your face wanting to know why. Then you can do the same thing to her.
2006-12-30 09:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by Boddington de la Prostitute IV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like u 2 have history - which confuses me why she wouldn't call. Maybe there is something deeper going on. When u leave the message, tell her you're unclear if you did something and will do anything to straigten things out.....more than likely it wasn't u, though. I'm sorry - I totally know how it feels to be left hangin'. She'll pull through. :) (and if she doesn't - she's not the one, which u already know). good luck
2006-12-30 09:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by LionessB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. How can you make us lose our accounts? Are you a Y!A mod? Odd. Anyway, maybe she went out of town for the holidays, forgot to tell you and left your contact info at home. Or maybe she got sick or something came up.
It sounds like something happened on her end and it indeed wasn't you. Hope it works out.
2006-12-30 09:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a VERY busy time of year and there's lots of extraneous activities going on. I wouldn't worry about it. She's probably just caught up in everything else with the holidays.
2006-12-30 09:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no point trying to guess why she hasn't gotten in touch. If she doesn't contact you soon after the holidays she may be avoiding you rather than telling you she doesn't want to see you again. Or she may simply be busy, time will tell.
2006-12-30 09:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? Maybe its not even you! She could be busy or there could be someone else.So for now just forget about her.She'll call you one day and you'll find out the real reason.If she dosent call then you'll know too.Happy New Years :)
2006-12-30 09:07:36 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am practically in the same boat you're in, I can so relate. Are there any extenuating circumstances? Maybe an ex waiting in the wings? Email me and I'll give you my scenario, maybe you can help me figure out mine!
2006-12-30 09:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by answergrrl3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think she is busy then give her space. Maybe your scarying her away. Take it easy and waited it. Then if she still doesn't return your calls then I would give up. Just ask yourself if she is worth it.
2006-12-30 09:06:30 · answer #10 · answered by Moni0718 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋