Well i know i have a lot of question but i was swimming in an inside pool a few nights ago and my boy friend untied my bathing siut! It felt wierd even though it was only me and him in the pool what should i do ? should i forget about it?
2006-12-30 08:55:38 · 13 answers · asked by ballin221 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're not comfortable with that, then tell him so. He doesn't have any sort of right whatsoever to you or your body, but YOU do have a right to your own body and to be comfortable and safe with him. Please, don't let it go. He might get the idea that you were fine with what he did and that it's all right to do things without your permission, and he might try to push you farther in the future. You need mutual respect for a relationship to truly work, and right now it doesn't sound like you're getting any from him.
2006-12-30 09:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Does the word weird have anything to do with being wrong?
Because it was in the 1800 when bathing suits were introduced.
Swimming nude was no different than bathing nude or being baptized.
Can you associate your weird with freedom?
That you have so concerned yourself to cover up that you have forgot you were born that way?
There is nothing wrong with what you felt but never be ashamed of your body... GOD gave it to you.
www.naturistsociety.com
2006-12-30 09:21:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn’t forget about it if you feel uncomfortable…obviously there is a reason why you weren’t comfortable with this. Figure out why you weren’t comfortable with it and tell him to keep his hands off where they don’t belong or else he'll be SORRY!!!
2006-12-30 09:09:16 · answer #3 · answered by UnknownJaneDoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were alone with your boyfriend and he untied your swimming suit and this felt "weird"?
Um.
You DO know what the word "boyfriend" means, DON'T you?
It sounds like you contradicted yourself. If a man is your boyfriend, then you have sex with him occasionally. Otherwise, he's not your boyfriend, but just a man who is your friend-at-arms-length.
If he is your boyfriend, he might have been signaling you that he's in the mood. If you're not, just tell him that. It isn't anything to get a weird feeling about.
2006-12-30 09:03:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
what a perv i would of slapped him for that and it should feel weird i mean i would feel that way if my boyfriend untied my bathingsuits (thats why i dont wear the ones that will untie) it about heppened to be once LOL
2006-12-30 09:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you trust him? Is he trustworthy? Skinny dip next time. It feels great!
Artist's Girl has a great answer. You should think about what she said before you think about what I said but you should still give me the 10 points because skinny dipping is fun.
2006-12-30 09:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by Just Chillin' 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its the end of december what pool were u in?
2006-12-30 09:09:28 · answer #7 · answered by BM33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you felt uncomfortable tell him not to do it again. ANd explain why? But I bet it was fun, lol
2006-12-30 09:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Next time, Take off his Shorts!
He'll Like that
2006-12-30 08:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
if u felt in anyway weird or uncomfortable then it was wrong for him to do dat.
2006-12-30 08:59:47 · answer #10 · answered by tina 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋