My ex-bf ended it a year ago, but a week ago, he asked me to see him, I did, but he treated me kinda bad. Thus, when I got home from the "meet up", I told him on msn "goodbye forever", & he kept saying sorry but I logged out. I say he treated me bad cuz as soon as the movie was over he just took me home, he never opened any doors for me, and at the end of the night he didn't park the car or even walk me to my door. He just looked at me and said Merry Christmas & didn't even try to hug me. But, since he was never a really bad boyfriend, I feel bad for saying goodbye forever to him on msn, should I send him an email telling him why I did that on msn, and that I wanna end things on a good note? Do you think he will respond and if you were him what would you think if I sent an email like that?
He's on msn now, should I just talk to him on msn? What should I say? will he ignore me?
2006-12-30 08:36:59 · 24 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Firstly, sounds like you still care about him. Secondly, if you do be honest with him and yourself. Thirdly, if he called you he probably misses you and just isn't sure how you feel. Lastly, ask him what his intentions were. Friends or does he want to give it a shot again. The End!
2006-12-30 08:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by Fresca Jesca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone feeling the need to say 'goodbye forever' is hoping for a reaction. If you don't wish to see him again, make the decision and stick to it. There's no need to tell him anything. It seems to me his only 'crimes' were bad manners and not wanting to hug you. I suspect your ego is a little bruised and you're feeling rejected. There seems to be some game playing on your part, aren't you really looking for people to give you permission to msn/email him? If it's already been over a year you should have moved on.
2006-12-30 16:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that you are upset because he didn't treat you like his girlfriend. Get over it because he is your ex-boyfriend so, so what if he wasn't playing the chivalry game? It is possible that he just wanted to take you out as a friend and test the waters again to see if you two should date again.
I think it was petty for you to write him a "Goodbye forever" email. Talk to the boy! It sounds like you want to date him again. If that is so then be a woman and tell him instead of playing cat and mouse games. If he doesn't want to be with you then find someone else that does.
2006-12-30 16:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by On the upside 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so after a year of not seeing him,,he takes you out as a friend and you complain he doesnt do boyfriend things,,is he a mind reader,,did you tell him you considered this a date so her knew the procedure? he more than likely tried to show you a little respect by not being presumptuous.why not start afresh and tell him (if you actually want to start a relationship again,friend or otherwise)," sorry for being that way but it was a shock to see you and all during the film we didnt talk and then it was over,,i was nervous,,or something but it would be cruel to keep him hanging around for nothing.you were quite rude to someone who had taken you out.
2006-12-30 16:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you weren't sure you wanted to call it quits for good you should have held your tongue until you could think it through. Never act on a impulse.
You have to learn to stick with your decisions. You broke up for a reason the 1st time. Maybe you can be friends at some point.
2006-12-30 16:43:06 · answer #5 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the only one who can feel what was it like between you & him you have your sense which build on different situation happened between you & him from these ituations you can conclude if he really deserve you or not, very woman has that sense inside her people call it 6th sense, you just went to meet him to see if there is little hope that things go right but when his way didnt change the answer came right away without any delay ,we are the woman we like to feel so special & we give our self to the one who deserves us so if you are sure that he doesn't deserve you , dont think about him again & start your new life , beleive in the goodness inside you & go on , some day you will find one who cherish you .
2006-12-30 16:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by enam25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he just didnt want to go to the movie by hisself. Yeah, the jerk will probably respond....when he needs another date. (I wouldnt even call it that.) I treat my dog better than that. If he has no more respect for you than a doormat you aren't losing anything. I would NOT even worry about it. You said enough to him.....GOODBYE was fitting enough. He deserves nothing more.
2006-12-30 16:43:12 · answer #7 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what you are looking for in a relationship and he just is not offering that so, dont feel bad. He had his second chance and he didnt even try to impress you. Go with your heart, it is telling you the right thing, dont feel guilty because he is not what you are looking for.
2006-12-30 16:42:03 · answer #8 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweeti. sorry to tell you but not every guy is goign to do that for you.
you guys broke up. you cant expect anything from him. he did what he thought was good.
i understand where you want to shut the door to open another but understand that he is confused. thats why guys dont understnad girls.
explain to him. but dont expect it to go over good. he was a great boyfriend and was trying to be a good friend. and a friend doesnt really open the doors for you. and where you suppose to go after a movie.
2006-12-30 16:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by Niko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were right 2 let this loser go so move on after all a brand new year and life for you is waiting for you around the corner
2006-12-30 16:40:35 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋