i am in one and it is very hard. the guy is worth it though. but how do you deal with missing them so much?
2006-12-30 08:34:50 · 11 answers · asked by jEN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah i know what you mean, my fience and i are living in different states. its really hard and when we're apart, it hurts. but to me, when we're together, oh gosh, its so worth it. i talk to him on the phone everyday. and we try and see eachother every month. yeah its hard and hurts, but the time together is worth it.
2006-12-30 08:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by So in love. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it is very hard to deal with the physical part of missing the one u love. you have to keep moving, don't sit around and cry. keep u self busy. when i feel upset i run for miles to me it relieves the pressures. but most of all u both have to have trust and understanding for each other. Patience is a virtue. someday everything will work out fine.
2006-12-30 17:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by urstory 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send letters, plan visits, talk on the phone as much as possible and of course online...I dont think you really get over missing them, but you could make it easier...and juss remember---Seperation makes the heart grow fonder.
2006-12-30 16:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by R*A*N*D*O*M* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Long phone calls, games online, watching movies at the same time, frequent flyer miles, bus rides, car trips and so much more. Get creative...
2006-12-30 16:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in one too.... if u really like him, stay with him.... i miss him a LOT and it is hard but we constantly write and call each other... there is no way u r not gonna miss him but u can try being in contact often to miss him a little bit less....
good luck!!
2006-12-30 16:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by ro 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been there and done that!!! Keep yourself busy!!!!! Learn a new hobby...go places..watch movies..surf the web....or answer a bunch of questions!
2006-12-30 16:37:07 · answer #6 · answered by mysweetluvie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just have to learn to distract yourself. I'm not saying you should forget about him or not think about him, but you need to find things (like a hobby) that will help keep you occupied.
2006-12-30 16:36:57 · answer #7 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well just try to think of him and talk to him everyday.it helps to hear his voice.mine never really worked though cause he thought i was obsessing.if u miss him to much,maybe u just have to learn to let him go.... i kno its haard to hold on
best wishes
2006-12-30 16:38:40 · answer #8 · answered by Lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try to email him or phone him whenever you feel lonely I hope that helped & Happy New Year!!!.
2006-12-30 16:42:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i am in one two..i live in rhode island and my gf lives in texas..i wud like to kno that to....a way that i do it is i talk to her on the fone..but the hard part is gettin off the fone....
2006-12-30 16:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋