where do i find guys who think that they can walk all ova you?

Question

everywhere i go i seem to attract the pricks,just for once id like to go somewhere and meet someone ginuwine and just generally nice,but i dont know where to find these guys,please help

Answer 1

It's a mine field of idiots and users and abusers out there and not just on the internet. Someone special that will treat you right will turn up when you least expect it.

You sound like me. Treated badly and trying far too hard to find that special person. I keep getting told that person will find me so I suppose I could tell you the same. As to whether the advise works. I can't say for sure. Not worked for me yet :-( But there's always a new year coming up :-)

Best wishes,

M xxx

Answer 2

Language and spelling tell a lot about ones personality. I am not being rude but if you speak like you write then the boys might tend to think less of you and think they can walk all over you. I mean ginuwine for instance. We all know no such word exists, it doesn't paint a brainy picture does it? I am not saying you have to change but up to now your way doesn't seem to be working very well for you.There are nice guys out there and one day you will meet your perfect match.

Answer 3

My parents always said u want to meet nice people u go to nicer places and don't get me wrong u can still find ones that will try everywhere but u would have better luck and if u go to a dive bar your going to find people well more trash people in a trashy bar but don't forget u can still meet the odd good one in a bad place and a not so nice person in a good place so I would just date n get to know people and spend a couple of extra bucks and hang out in nicer places good luck n have a great new year.

Answer 4

For some reason something that happened to you has made you subconsciously attract to these types of men.

Even if you go to a gold club and pull a rich posh man, you are going to find the one who will walk all over you.

Don't kid yourself you have met plenty of nice men. But you are not attracted to those qualities. You really need to look inside yourself and get to the bottom of it. Forgive who ever it was, forgive yourself, what ever and move on. Actualize yourself.

Well it is hard to change who you are attracted to. Honestly what you are attracted to is their ability to control the situation and control you, their ability to lead. What you have to do is set up standards for yourself, and rules that you will not violate, define treatment or manipulative behavior that you will not tolerate. This will help you separate the men from the boys.

Answer 5

Oh Geez If you can find that place TELL ME!!

I know how you feel but, at the risk of sounding like my mother, Church would be her answer. But, I hate to tell mom that isn't always a good place either. I know some men that go to church every time the doors open and they are some of the biggest pricks I've ever met.

Answer 6

The good ginuwine guys are all around you, but they're probadly your male friends. As ur only attracted to pricks u'll only find pricks, and miss the treasures in front of you.

Answer 7

It most likely is your self confidence. You may be meeting the right guys but if you let them walk all over you then they will do it and end up being the wrong guys. Guys who are with self confident girls treat them with respect because they know that when they screw up, they're gone. Make sure you acknowledge when they aren't treating you proper and kick them to the curb asap. Don't take "I'm sorry" for an answer because they will do it again. Good luck and show them how to treat you right!!

Answer 8

Simple...leave them alone! No seriously...try being friends first and get to know them. You can usually spot a prick in the first hour or two. Its true...there are nice guys out there and they do tend to come up last or when you are least expecting them. Good Luck!

Answer 9

People with low self-esteem tend to attract people they will allow to exploit them. The reasons are often complex but with effort and counselling can be addressed. The more you value yourself, the better the people you attract. It's good you've noticed this pattern, the hard part is breaking the cycle of behaviour. Those who ignore history are doomed to repeat it. I wish you better choices in future.

Answer 10

The question you TRIED to ask is just a complete copy of my own - and if you re-read it, you'll realise it doesn't even make sense. And some of these answers are complete bull - I'm well-spoken, and I don't dress like a sl*t - d*khead guys are into any attractive girl, you just need to weed them out and wait for the right one, as I've just realised.