so last night I had sex with my best guy friend and I have a boyfriend so I cheated now what im soo scared should I break up wit him, stay wit him, tell him?? I unno im really nervous....
2006-12-30 08:28:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WOW, I couldn't imagine how you feel right now it depends on why you did it and if it was worth what you're in now if it was I'd recommend breaking up with your boyfriend if it wasn't then you should figure it out somehow
But remember it's your life and your decision so you have to really think about it what ever you choose to do
Good luck hope things work out
2006-12-30 08:51:49 · answer #1 · answered by ~Again~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End your relationship with the BF and hook up with your best guy friend. This is also something you should think hard about, why have best guy friends when you already have a relationship...There is really no sense in having a boyfriend if you still want to play the field to see what is out there. The day you really want something committed, it is time to retire the extra male friends and count them as friends to the relationship.
You both cheated, so he knows that you would cheat and you know that this best guy friend would also cheat.....chances are one of you will do it again. Make it easier on yourselves, be sex friends but not committed, it is obvious that it is lust driving the situation and not love.
2006-12-30 16:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by Keanu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to give you any advice because there's a lot more at stake than just the bf/gf thing. I'm talking about being a trustworthy person. I'm talking about considering other people's feelings. I'm talking about developing bad habits as a young person that are going to be hard to break if they continue. I'm talking about controling yourself. And let's not talk about contracting an STD (sexually transmitted disease) or early pregnancy. Mistakes will happen, but some can be life threatening or have long term consequences. Next time think about your actions. I'm through!
2006-12-30 17:17:11 · answer #3 · answered by Deke O'Malley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to think about why you slept with your best guy friend and not your boyfriend and afterward ask yourself who is more worth your heart the current guy or the best friend guy
2006-12-30 16:30:46 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you intend to fool around with your best guy friend some more then break up. If you wont do it again then stay with him.
2006-12-30 16:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him of course! you should be honest with your boyfriend! and you should be scared because you did cheat but, its better to let him know then keeping it in and letting him find out another way.
2006-12-30 16:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by j yanks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmhm the first answere's right. you dont truly love him if you easily had sex with another guy. i know this is gunna sound pretty sappy, but listen to your heart hun. does it tell you to stay with your boyfriend, or leave him? do you love him.. or not?
2006-12-30 16:32:20 · answer #7 · answered by answer! this 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your guy friend it was one night only and just go along wit ur life
2006-12-30 16:30:40 · answer #8 · answered by Caroline H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your boyfriend what you did and go from there...
2006-12-30 16:36:09 · answer #9 · answered by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your mouth shut and tell noone. If you love your bf and he loves you it is best he never finds out.
2006-12-30 16:33:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋