Hello, Im 17 and i still havent gone out with a girl yet, normally is because im kinda shy to them, and thats what its been holding me back all this time, now i feel like im pushed to get one because some of my fam. are starteing to think weird of me. All my friends though have girlfriends so i dont know if something is seriously wrong with me.
2006-12-30 08:22:43 · 16 answers · asked by Mark-0 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no theres nothing wrong with you! ofcourse your feeling this way beacuse your surrounded by people in relatinships.. but dont let that get you down.. whats the point in having a gf for the sake of it... would you not rather be in a realtionship beacuse your both attracted to each other.. its not wierd at all and if your family think this of you then their not being very supportive.. you'll find the girl you want.. and it may happen when you least expect it.. :)
2006-12-30 08:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it worry you. So many people don't want others to think that they're weird, so they settle for people that they don't even like. Make sure to NEVER do that. Just always be respectful and if you feel like you can't talk to a girl that you're interested in, just be confident and tell yourself you can do it. If you do that, she will repsect you and will want to get to know you better. Seriously, just focus on friends, family, activties, school, etc. right now and wait until the right girl comes along. I'm sure you're great and will have a girlfriend in no time. Have a happy New Year!!!
2006-12-31 11:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by T.M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. I am 17 and never had bf or even very first kiss. I know that people find it strange but I am shy and it takes time for me to meet new people and trust them. I also started to think that something is seriously wrong with me. kids tend to grow up too fast these days. I am sure nothing is wrong with us :) !
2006-12-30 08:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by HarMonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the same way. Don't sweat it. When you get older you will realize that all the "relationships" your peers are having right now are pretty lame anyway. A lot of the people now who are getting a lot of dates will be married young (big mistake) or will be burn outs (If your high school is like mine was, the people who dated most also partied most). Bottom line: Be yourself and try not to waste any energy worrying about it. You're normal; probably better than normal.
2006-12-30 08:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by monkeyandmolly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being single is such a great gift! You have time and energy to pursue your dreams. Don't worry about it. If you've ever read Song of Solomon (yes, yes, its in the BIBLE.... ohh my gosh...) it says something like "Do not awaken love until it's time has come". Just enjoy life and show the world who you are! Besides, who's highschool dating relationships really last? I mean come on, they usually end up breaking it off somewhere down the road.
Nothing's wrong with you!
(Btw, I'm also a 17 yr old who hasn't dated)
2006-12-30 08:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not alone I have friends that are 34 that never dated yet LOL so next time you see a girl tell her Hi how does she like/dislike the class get to know her and then before you know it you got a girl good luck 2 U
2006-12-30 08:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, nothing is wrong with you in the least bit. to me, it simply means that you have come accross the right girl to ask out yet. if you are normally a shy guy and you do have your eye on a girl you want to ask out. my advice, is go for it. my suggestion is to go on a 'get to know her' date. like bowling, some place where you can talk to her. dont worry, youre normal and nothings wrong with you. =] good luck.
2006-12-30 08:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by So in love. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is completely normal.... dont feel bad just because of what ur family may think..... when u find the right girl and u feel confident enough to ask her out, it will be the right time to get a gf, it doesnt matter how old u r....
good luck! =o)
2006-12-30 08:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by ro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh... Well it's not normal in our society. Many have girlfriend or boyfriends by junior high. But i guess it's good to wait until you found the right girl. On the other hand you might be too picky or too shy.
2006-12-30 08:28:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont worry,i am 24 and my first sex was in 18 so
you have 1 year left,first i was complitli like you but now in my age
i dont know what should i do with my gals
more tah 4 or 5...
be paitian and select the best and dont be shy
2006-12-30 08:29:33 · answer #10 · answered by afshinmanson 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋