This is a question for those who believe in no se.x till marriage (I'm one of them, by the way). I was just wondering what your thoughts would be on kissing before marriage (like making out).
2006-12-30 08:04:12 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends. Kissing can easily arouse men. So if ur willing to take the chance and possible temptation, you can do it. Kissing doesn't have to lead to temptation but often does.
2006-12-30 08:08:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, im 17. Most poeple my age have already had the works,[sex, making out all that good stuff]. Im a virgin, and I belive that you shouldnt have intil marrage. It's hard to do, but im still a virgin. I personally don't think it's wrong to kiss somone you like alot or love, and I have made out a plenty of times before. As long as you dont do anything past making out in a bed with clothes on, you'll be good. I mean, come on you need some kind of pleasure before you get married don't you? lol But everyone thinks differenly but thats just what I think.
2006-12-30 08:09:57 · answer #2 · answered by Alan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! In fact, it's even wrong to enjoy kissing or sex after marriage. Your partner will appreciate your punctuality when it comes to the whole ugly act, however, if you can just become sufficiently proficient so as to be able to finish in under a minute. In that way, you needn't worry about their feelings because they will not even be really into it in that brief time. You'll be a hero.
Oh yeah - God doesn't really care, but since you're into this self-sacrifice thing, I just want to be sure you get all you can out of it.
2006-12-30 08:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a Christian, as in I do my perfect to maintain on with Christ. I lived with my spouse for a 365 days merely before marriage. We have been sexually lively. First retaining hands, hugging, back rubs... kissing... then you definately fill interior the blanks. we've been married now for over 11 years and characteristic 3 toddlers. 2 boys and one little woman. I say all that to assert this, and that on the probability of being a hypocrite. If i might desire to replay my existence i might want to have waited. As a daddy i want to be able to tell my little woman how useful her mom became to me and that i respected her extra suitable than my needs. i want to instill in her an exhilaration for a manner magnificent intercourse is. How intoxicating the 2d could be. yet I dont desire her to be a countrywide divorce statistic. i desire her to call for and assume admire from her destiny husband. So kissing... i think i might have no subject with some one kissing my daughter merely before marriage. yet that back is a dorway of intimacy and what happens if issues do no longer artwork out? So is it a sin... i'm unsure. yet hugs and retaining hands are actually not in basic terms ok i encourage them. Even Jesus Christ embraced his fellow acquaintances with a kiss and a heat hug. (seem it up) As for my sons I even have much extra concern as to the certainty i will in basic terms desire to improve them to admire and honor women human beings extra helpful than I did as a youthful guy.
2016-11-25 01:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think kissing before marriage is ok, but sex before marriage is wrong.
2006-12-30 08:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, most people agree that kissing can lead to sex as it arouses the two parties. Then if he wants to go further and you decline, you'll be called a tease. I think it'll be ok if you make out but no more than like....3seconds.
2006-12-30 08:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same believes as you, and NO it isn't bad to kiss before marriage
2006-12-30 08:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to kiss. But for you - you want to wait for marriage before sex so be it. It is your personal preference. But kissing should be alright. You need intimacy in your relationship. And guys need action or to demonstrate this kind of intimacy.
2006-12-30 08:07:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is fine. I make out and i believe in sex for marriage and so does my boyfriend.
2006-12-30 08:07:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with kissing. It's rather enjoyable!! Just be careful not to put yourself in a situtation where things could escalate quickly.
2006-12-30 08:06:33 · answer #10 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋