I am 19 and i really wanna stay a virgin till my wedding night because i think it would be really special. I really think that in that case it would extra gentle, extra romantic. And i believe that for a husband it would be special too. But i feel that guys dont support this idea.They r trying to invent illogical reasons to why i shouldnt wait, which sound to me like a gibberish. To be honest it really dissapoints me, when they say that a girl, who is becoming a wife should know what she is doing in bed and all the other stuff like that. This issue bothers me a lot and for a long time. Is it all about guys r scared that a girl had higher expectations of them, or they r affraid that the girl will start betraying with time? But i dont think i would be infidel to the person i love from curiosity. What comes to the stuff about my inexperience, i guess if ur spouse loves u, he will teach u. Am i wrong? Doesnt it really nice for a men to take his wife's virginity on the wedding night, to share all her nervousness and thrill and all the other good things of the kind?
2006-12-30 07:55:21 · 3 answers · asked by JUSTGIRL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For those, who didnt understand, i didnt say i need a guy to stay a virgin too. I am talking abt experienced guys.
2006-12-30 08:29:22 · update #1
Guys are just telling you crap so they'll be your first. Someone just wants you to be another notch in his belt of conquests.
Saving sex until marriage is ideal and will be a very special and desirable gift to your husband. An upright guy will love that you saved yourself for him and will treasure that. Keep hanging in there until then.
2006-12-30 08:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by Lyf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not a man... and I am proud to hear you talk like that... I'm a 17 year old girl, and I would love to stay vigin until marriage, most of my friends are experienced, while I'm not, it doen't matter what other people think or say, just follow your herat and decisions, I think there are some men out there who want their wife to be a virgin when he marries her. But most guys now don't care... I personally think that if a man really loves you he would wait until you are ready in this case married to have sex with you, so don't worry about it.
2006-12-30 08:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i also think that staying a virgin untilo your wedding is so sweet and most appropiate for everyone, but its kind of hard to find virgin guys, makes you think, would you want someone who doesnt know how to move? someone that is lame when he does it? i wouldnt, its a hard descicion, there are no virigin guys anyways, but id stay virgin, until i get married
2006-12-30 08:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by nadie entendia mi nick asi que lo cambie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋