if u love some1 so much and he really become all ur life but he broke ur heart,how can u get over it??

Answer 1

I'm so sorry, but nothing but time will help you out. Each day will get better and eventually another guy will come along. But don't call him, don't look at pictures, don't ask about him and don't sit around and listen to music that reminds you of him. Get out, get busy and the time will pass more quickly.

Answer 2

1. Cry as much as you can.
2. Talk to your friends and your mom. Surround yourself with other women who can understand and listen without telling you things like "You're better off without him" or "You're too young to know what love is".
3. Give yourself a mini-makeover. Put some highlights in your hair. Get a pedicure. If you're low on money, go to the local beauty school. You can get lots of pampering done there cheaply!
4. Find a song that expresses how you're feeling right now and listen to it over and over again. I got through a breakup years ago by playing "In the End" by Linkin Park for 6 months straight. I knew that one day I'd be over him and that I'd move on.
5. Be kind to yourself.
6. Do NOT drink alcohol until you're past this. If you get drunk you will inevitably wind up in bed with some guy you hate or you will start drunk dialing your ex and begging him to take you back.
7. Which leads me to this...... Hang on to your dignity. No matter how badly it hurts, don't call him and beg for another chance. Don't badmouth him either. If anyone asks take a cue from the celebrities and say, "It just didn't work out".
8. Try to find something to take your mind off of the breakup. Take up a hobby, work out, do ANYTHING as long as it isn't lying around and moping over him.
9. Remember that you're not alone in the world. As much as it hurts, we've all been there. Your pain feels like it will never end, but I promise you that one day it will. It may take a while, but it will go faster if you allow yourself to grieve and then move on.
10. Learn from this and vow to use this lesson to make your next relationship better.

One day this will be behind you.

Answer 3

u kno u really dont get over it.. u learn from it.. i become a wiser and smarter and hopefully a stronger person.. u cant stay down forever u have to move on.. it might be hard at first but u will get through it.. but always keep it in ur mind that not all ppl are like that u can punish other ppl b/ of what one person did.. have to jst live ur life and be happy.. i hope the best for u..

Answer 4

Throw away everything that he gave you or that you gave him and stay away from the places you two used to frequent. Then, give yourself a goal of one week of no contacting him and then keep extending that goal as you meet it. Under no circumstances should you view his myspace or any other pages. Just focus on you and what you want. When you think of him phone a friend who you've chosen to support you by reminding you of what caused the two of you to break up in the first place. This process may take a while depending on you but it will work. Remember out of sight out of mind-until you're able to think of him without thinking of the possibility of getting back with him...

Answer 5

You could still be energetically connected to your ex, and while that sounds like encouragement from the universe, it's not -- it's you! You still may be giving him/her your energy in thought, emotional, or spiritual form. You could be doing so unconsciously, out of habit, or based on a belief that this love is the only (or the best love) you could ever have. And, quite possibly, you have not allowed yourself to fully grieve it yet.

On the other hand, there is also the possibility that your ex won't let go and is still hooked into you. If this is the case, you can clear that out in a gentle way with love and light (and say goodbye if that's what you wish).

Whatever the case, this may have been the deepest love you have ever shared with someone. But know that it is not the only love (or the best love) that you can -- or will -- share with anyone in the future.


MJ

Answer 6

First, learn the lesson...NEVER make someone "all ur life" because then when things end, you are left not knowing what to, how to live...NO ONE is worth investing that much of yourself in..

To get over it though, you need time...sounds cliche' but it's true...busy yourself with friends, work, school (whatever is applicable for you) and as time goes by you will think of him less, find that you are missing him less...

Make your life fabulous...don't live it for anyone else, live it for YOU! That's the only way to truly be happy.

Answer 7

time is the answer that's the only thing that helps and it only heals over the wound but the scar will always be there,you just gotta bite yer lip and move on I'm sorry to say you will find someone new and when you do you will think thank god i split up from that other guy id have never off met him good luck xx xx

Answer 8

you can't until all of ur feelings are gone. but the best thing u can do is enroll in tons of activities so u wont think of this person so much and you get to know new people.

Answer 9

My husband. He taught me approximately forgiveness and kindness. there have been cases once I even have been out of line with being cranky or unreasonable and he has been extra gracious than I deserved. He makes me want to be a extra helpful individual.

Answer 10

You'll get over it in time, the best thing to do is move on with your life and find someone else. Find stuff to do that is interesting for you so your not thinking about it. This always helped me.