2006-12-30 07:40:54 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea you should!!!! Even though you R in different grades it really doesn't matter. I bet she would be happy to go out with an 11th grader.
2006-12-30 07:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by tessss?! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats funny cause if u asked me that 3 years ago when i had a major crush on a senior and i was in 8th grade it would have seem totally ok since my friends went out with 11th graders . but now when i think of it as a sophmore even freshmens looks too young so u are probably better off staying away from her
2006-12-30 07:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by no longer caligirl. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a great friend in 11th grade who goes out with a 21 year old. they met through church, and there is a 5 year difference between their ages. they were really great friends for a long time, and eventually they began to 'like' each other in that way. so instead of just asking her out, the guy went up to her parents instead and asked if they would approve of their daugher dating a guy his age. they respected his courage and said yes!! i would ususally TOTALLY diapprove of such an age difference so young in life - but idk - its almost like they reallly are into each other, and i respect her taking things slow - and realizing what she is doing.
so if you like a girl, and she's only 3 years younger than you, age is just a number, and it will always be. treat her like the girl she should be treated like - and you wont have anything to worry about. just make sure her parents are okay with it, considering you're both young.
2006-12-30 07:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by Beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she's way too young for you (unless you're some genius that skipped a few grades) and you're way too old for her. There shouldn't be more than a years difference until college. The maturity jumps dramatically with seniors being essentially adults.
2006-12-30 07:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by Just Chillin' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok, but there is a big age difference. I mean it will be hard to work out. Her parents mightnot like it. I hope it works because the age difference is the same with me. Im in 9th, my boyfriend is a senior. Good luck! Just be ready for alot of difficulties, because there is.
2006-12-30 07:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be careful with what you do with her, though. I like to think of it as when you're 25, she'll be 22-23. It's not soo bad, but I'd make sure you know what you're doing. Girls tend to think guys in older grades only want to use them for sex
2006-12-30 07:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by infallible_wench 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's ok she has to be what 14 or 15 and your 17 it's just like when a Senior asks out a freshman.
2006-12-30 07:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by cat-o-doom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's okay, I let all my daughters date at that age, but i made it perfectly clear to the guys taking them out that they better respect them and treat them right. Cause if they hurt my girls in any way emotionally or physically I had a real big knife i'd cut their peckers off with.
2006-12-30 07:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not ok
shes too young, even if sex isnt on your mind, thats what people will think.... even though you shouldnt care what other people think but do you see anyone else around you in highschool with gfs in middle school
you should find somebody that has the same kind of goals as you... going to college, getting your drivers license, getting into trouble that 18 y/os get into... not having to babysit...
2006-12-30 07:47:43 · answer #9 · answered by ashkro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen up 'joe'
being a ninth grader, i wouldnt even go out with some1 2 yrs older then me let alone 3 if i was still in eigth grade.
2006-12-30 07:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by sweet pea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋