When we get to my house (I'm walking to hers to pick her up, then we're watching a movie at mine, parents out, I'm 17) I need help on what I should say, should it be a surprise? (Asking her to close her eyes then for me to go in with a kiss) Should I compliment her then lean in before we watch the movie, but while we're sitting? I suck at this I know, but that's what this site's for, so any help would be nice! Thanks in advance!
2006-12-30 07:27:20 · 14 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Really Chris, don't worry, you'll be just fine.
If you feel like kissing her, then just go for it. there's not a proper time or a proper place, and neither a proper way.
Just imagine what you would like it to be for you, and how you think it's right, and go for it.
And you know the best part? It only gets better. So, you need no lesson, it's comes from the inside and is personal to everybody, like a fingerprint.
Good luck and Happy New Year!x
2006-12-30 07:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit just near her to watch the film, then a hand on her legs while talking, between the scenes i would just be looking at her like she's more interesting than the movie, then a finger walking on her cheek with love, normally the kiss at this level should become obvious, but u need to be very natural, not acting
2006-12-30 15:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I wouldn't ask. I like being surprised. She might not though. THe close your eyes then going for the kiss is a good idea. Will this be your first kiss or what? I hope it all works house. Don't stress about it. It will come natural to you.
2006-12-30 15:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I nicked a line out of a film (can't remember which one), and said we were both going to worry about the first kiss all night and we had best get it out of the way now and enjoy the rest of the evening.
It must of worked,its 8 years later and we found out 4 days ago that our first child is on the way.
NO we have not been trying for 8 years , sarcastic buggers
2006-12-30 16:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by mfactor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chris, I think you are stressing too much about it. Okay, the first kiss is one of Life's milestones, but don't make it the main event of your evening. Just relax and enjoy being together with your girlfriend first and foremost.
Be your natural self and charming towards her: don't try to be someone you are not. Remember that she is likely to be just as nervous as you are, just put her at her ease by being relaxed in yourself. Smile at her and compliment her on the way she looks this evening or tell her you like the perfume she is wearing tonight. Just be yourself and just chat naturally with her. Flirt with her, yes, but don't overdo it. Make it easy for her to trust you by treating her with the respect she is due. If everything goes as well as you are hoping, remember that she will be making herself more vulnerable than she has done so far in her life, so she needs to be able to trust you in order to do that.
Make sure there is a nice romantic mood in the room where you are watching the movie. Get comfy on the sofa and if she snuggles in close to you, ask her if you can put your arm around her. The all important thing is that your date feels safe and relaxed with you, so don't make any sudden unexpected moves towards her. Tell her how much you are enjoying being with her and just let nature take its course. Pay attention to her body language and act according to that. She will soon show you if she wants you to kiss her or not. If she gives you the green light, just take your time, tilt your head to one side and kiss her gently with relaxed lips. Don't try to play tennis with her tonsils right away: there's plenty time for that later.
So, to recap: just relax, be yourself, treat her like she's the most precious person in your life and go with the flow. A relationship is a partnership, just be attentive towards her, don't force her to go faster than she wants to go, and the kiss will happen naturally.
Have a lovely evening with your lady, and good luck!
2006-12-30 16:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by colliedug111060 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant plan for it to happen. Its just gotta be in the moment. Lean in...not for the kiss but just to get closer. Then put your arm around her or something and then look at her...she'll see in the corner of her eye, your looking at her...then move in for the kill (kiss). You gotta be stealthy bout it. You cant just ambush her with a surprise. You'll know when and where to kiss her when the moment arises (is that even a word?)
A lil Military terminology for yeah...
2006-12-30 15:33:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry . There is like no point AT ALL in getting worked up about this . Its a personal desicion and i dont think your going to get a magic answer . it will feel right . i mean me personally , i think in the middle of a movie is quite sweet , but not if your surrounded by people . Compliments always work wonders . Flattery really does get you everywhere . x
2006-12-30 15:32:24 · answer #7 · answered by lauren a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remind her that you love her. then tell her that there isnt another girl you would want to be with than her. then lean in a little. DO NOT JUMP AT HER. You will never know if she wants to kiss you. Then maybe she will lean in the rest. I suggest you do this in the car after the movie.
2006-12-30 15:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by Kayley M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing ever goes to plan. I had these great plans for my kiss, but the circumstances i had planned for never happened. In the end I just decided to go with the flow, and it was awesome. You will know when it feels right, you just need to not be nervous and be your self
2006-12-30 16:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by Ben P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're way over thinking this, and it is going to be the biggest disappointment ever at this rate. You need to let happen what ever will happen. The first postee has it right, with the 'Hitch' quote "You go 90% of the way and wait, let her come the last 10%"
2006-12-30 15:44:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋