The guy I like, likes me back. Maybe more then I like him. His best friend likes me too. But I don't want to hurt his feelings cuz I don't like him. The guy I like is going to ask me out. Possibly tonight. I don't know what to do. Help?
2006-12-30 07:16:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go with the one you like. What does it matter if the other one has hurt feelings for awhile. (which will mend) Unless you just want to string him along as second best, then what does it matter what he thinks when you date the one you like. Just do it tactfully. (don't flaunt the new relationship in his face)
2006-12-30 07:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you only like 1 just go with that 1 the other 1 should be a best friend of you and your boyfriend and that friend suppose to be a body guard .I hope you be very careful with the 2 guys if you know what i mean 'but handle your business like a woman
2006-12-30 15:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by littlemoma_30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you like the guy that's asking you out then say yes. I know it might hurt his friend but if you don't like his friend like that then he'll get over it. Guys usually get over things quickly compared to girls. So just don't sweat it.Or if you don't want to wait for the guy you like to ask you out you should ask him out. But don't go into the relationship feeling bad for his friend cuz it might cause problems.
2006-12-30 15:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by Wolf_28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly tell the one boy that you don't like that you feel your relationship would be better as friends. Rejection is always going to sting and hurt some one feelings but be as nice as possible with him.
2006-12-30 15:19:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try be honest with him. Tell him that you think that he is a great guy but you are just not attracted to him. However you would happy to be his friend though. Even though his friend who you like is going to ask you out. If you told him the truth, i am sure he would happy for you guys. I hope that helped. HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!
2006-12-30 15:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.. I think you should date the guy you like ? I mean if he likes you and he's fixing to ask you out thats the only solution. I don't think you should worry about the guy(best friend) He hasn't asked you out yet.. Would not worry about it.. first come first date!!. Date the boy you like. The boy you don't want to date will understand guys are simple minded.. lol
2006-12-30 15:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by blink182_chick_for_life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. do what you think you should do. is his best friend really close with you? if not, then why hurt yourself just to save someone that you dont really know? if you like the guy and he likes you then you can either say yes or spend the rest of your life in ' what might have been '
2006-12-30 15:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by Beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship lasts longer than a relationship that won't work out. Be friends with both and then choose. Good luck and have fun!!!
2006-12-30 15:19:28 · answer #8 · answered by STAR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say yes? While it is nice that you care about this other friend's feelings even though you don't like him, those feelings do not supersede your own feelings. He will be able to get over it.
2006-12-30 15:21:39 · answer #9 · answered by Mike J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's hard, choose the one you like that likes you back, the other boy will understand and realize there are many other girls. Don't worry. He can handle it.
2006-12-30 15:20:26 · answer #10 · answered by NotSoCoolForThisWorld 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋