my best girlfriend i have liked on and off for about 3 yrs
and lately ive liked her even more and it seems like, when i dont like her, she likes me and idk wat to do because i really like her at this point but it seems like she doesnt like me... and lately she has been getting into alcohol and other things and it kind of bothers me because a few weeks ago she kindof got raped by a guy way to old for her almost infront of my eyes... and i put a stop to it after i saw her try to get up and get away from him... but i didnt before that because i wasnt sure if she was enjoying it or not (and i didnt want her to get angry at me if i stopped it when she was enjoying it) and there is this other girl who likes me, i think, and she has had a lot of experience with other guys and im not sure if i really want to have a relationship w/ her because i kind of want to have relationships and progress through experiences (if you know what i mean) with a girl who doesnt have too much experience like her
2006-12-30 07:16:30 · 4 answers · asked by the Big Kahuna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do you get "kind of got raped"? This says a lot about your immaturity, and that you were in the vicinity of it happening. Maybe she was enjoying it? Come on, now, if you aren't old enough to know when a girl/guy is being sexually abused, you need to NOT have a girlfriend until you can clarify such issues. And why would you want someone to be your girlfriend if she might be enjoying sex with someone else.
I think you need to back off, let her be who she is, with all of her traumas, and you possibly need to enjoy experiences with someone you have built a relationship with. Sex isn't for experimenting; it is how someone who likes/lobes another person shows them that caring and feeling in an intimate way. It isn't a playground sport that one has to experience.
Put a little more space between yourself and women, and figure out how you are going to relate to them, enjoy them, and understand how sex works between two people. Good luck.
2006-12-30 07:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by dutchlady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to much of a mess for me to even try giving advice.
2006-12-30 16:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds interesting, try to stay out of the drama.
2006-12-30 15:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry...I think you are too young for all this drama....
2006-12-30 15:21:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋