I introduced my cousin to my auntie few months ago..and yesterday when we came back we found them have an affair..they were kissing on the couch and my auntie's husband found out....and oh god my auntie is 16 years older than my cousin! i have sinned...i shouldnt have introduced my cousin to my auntie..or else they wouldnt hook up with each other...now mum wants to throw my cousin out...what should i do...my uncle also wanna kill my auntie right now..
2006-12-30 07:11:47 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It's not your problem. Let them deal with it as they may.
And you did nothing wrong. Sh*t happens.
2006-12-30 07:14:15 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find the nearest priest or something, and ask him what kind of pennance would be appropriate and how long you should pay for such a dastardly deed as introducing your cousin to your auntie!
Seriously, though, I hope you did not introduce them with the expectation that they would hook-up, like a blind date. In that case, the best you can do is apologize to them both and ask for forgiveness from them and from God.
Barring that and beyond, that, you should stay out of it and let the family work it out. It's not your fault.
2006-12-30 07:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by Leroy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You haven't sinned. Introducing people to each other is not a sin. The only sin being committed is between your aunt and your cousin. The other sin that's possibly about to happen is if your uncle does indeed kill your aunt. It's a bad situation all the way around but you are not to blame.
2006-12-30 08:13:50 · answer #3 · answered by Pamela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's scary, but you know, it's not your fault. All you were doing were introducing them to each other, you never said here auntie, hook up with my cousin... Or did you...? Just pray for the best. Good luck! =)
2006-12-30 07:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by Elena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunnny it's not ur fault. Your cousin and auntie are the ones who sinned. It's not your fault at all. It would have been rude not to introduce him. Don't fret. If you still feel bad pray to God.
2006-12-30 07:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by wutsup? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look it's not your fault for their wrong doings
all you did want introduce them, that's just natural; plus they're family so they must have crossed paths some time
just go to church and confess your sins.. that way you can have a clean slate
and about your auntie and cousin, well they will work it out
just try to avoid the situation and leave them to hand it
2006-12-30 07:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by francesca C. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have done nothing wrong. Your Auntie and your cousin are the only parties responsible. They will have to own up to what they have done and who they have hurt - you included! They owe you an apology for putting you in a place where you feel responsible! Good luck!
2006-12-30 07:17:54 · answer #7 · answered by Katie Rose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have done enough. best for you to just be kind and smile. and don't think you have sinned. you haven't. what happened was not intentional so you are not to blame for your auntie using your cousin like a boy toy. go away from this message with a smile and knowing you are such a moral person. god praise you for caring to do right.
2006-12-30 07:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you have not sinned. You can´t be expected to control the lives of everyone around you, don´t play god. Talk to your cousin and let them know that what they´ve done has hurt you and was disrespectful. Your uncle and untie have to deal with this issue themselves but always be there to lend an ear if they need one.
2006-12-30 07:16:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not your foult that they had an affair just because you introduced them. and its somethin your auntie and uncle need to sort out them selfs. tell your mum how you feel responsable for the affair and you dont want to feel responsable for her kicking your cousin out. hopefully she'll understand good luck
2006-12-30 07:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by nat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't hold yourself responsible for the actions of others. You introduced them without any idea they would do what they did. Try not to get in the middle of everything right now...wait until tempers cool off before trying to intervene at all.
2006-12-30 07:19:25 · answer #11 · answered by Earnesty_in_life 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋