alright on tuesday i got to see this guy that i haven't seen in a couple months. we hit it off real well and ended up drinking a little at my house and i told him how i felt about him, he tld me how he felt about me. we both agreed we really like eachother. he said he didnt wanna rush anything and didnt wanna by any means make me uncomfortable abotu anything. later that night on the phone he was saying how he thinks if we start talking a bit more and hanging out a bit more, we could maybe have a relationship. anyway, the next day we hung out at his house. after that i texted him while i was at work and he didnt answer. after work that night some friends from another state came over to visit, two guys. and the next day, me my best friend (my best friend kinda likes the guy i like and doesnt know anything's up between us) and these two guys decide to go to the mall. before we left the guy i like sent me a text apologizing for not answering the night before and i ignored it.
2006-12-30 07:02:24 · 9 answers · asked by LongingForYourTouch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we finally get to the mall and guess who we run into there. the guy i like. it was the most awkward thing ever. i didnt know how to react because first of all my best friend has no idea we even talk, and it was just horrible. so i texted him asking if he wanted to walk around with us for a little while and he asks if me and my friend were with two guys. i told him yeah but that they were just friends, he never said anything. later on i asked him if hed wanna hang out with me and he didnt answer and hasnt talked to me since. should i say anything to him? idk how to handle this and i really want him to talk to me again
2006-12-30 07:04:57 · update #1
well..u shoulda txtd him back & just been like that's okay, i'm out with some friends right now tho .. i'll talk to you later. i mean, u kno how it feels to have a text ignored..i'm sure he didnt feel all that great either.
2006-12-30 07:05:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would text him back and apologize for acting like a child. I would tell him that I appreciated his apology that he sent, and sorry for not texting him too. I would explain that the other guys were just friends, and then I would explain the awkwardness because your friend likes him too. Then see what happens, if all is forgiven, you need to talk to your friend. Let her know that there is chemistry there, and that you don't want to hurt her, but would appreciate her support since he likes you too. Then decide by talking to him, what exactly he means by taking it slow. That way there are no more hard feelings, and no mis-understandings by what the expectations are.
2006-12-30 15:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by 2mom35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are sabatoging a potentially good thing here by holding grudges. Don't do that. You have no idea why he didn't answer you and he could have a very good excuse. Just talk to him and find out what's going on.
2006-12-30 15:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by It's Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is it you need advice? You seem to have a handle on everything. Relax and enjoy.
2006-12-30 15:05:52 · answer #4 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's just whack! Um obviously ya'll like eachother so talk and work it out.
2006-12-30 15:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by wutsup? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text him a kiss, see if he replies to that.
2006-12-30 15:12:38 · answer #6 · answered by spud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is the rest of the story? what is supposed to happen.
2006-12-30 15:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by just_acali_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like the guy and he likes you then go for it
2006-12-30 15:06:06 · answer #8 · answered by nat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have answered his text.
2006-12-30 15:41:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋