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As in my first question I divulged that my ex husband committed suicide a year ago and the guilt I carry. Am I crazy for thinking that he has given me signs from where he is to help me through this? For example When I got my EMT cert it was close to his death, I went o breakfast with a friend and there being no parking at the diner in the front I had to go to the back. The FIRST car parked was the same car as mine with WAY TO GO KARI in that window paint on the back window. NOBODY spells my name that way. When I finally brought my children to the grave site, after my 4 yr old daughter announced she had something to say and said "I want to thank Mike for loving me too because I am the boys sister" Then a plane flew very low above our heads the up and away. There are NO airports near this cemetery and she looked up and waved and said BYE MIKE, This is when the obvious in your face signs slowed down for me. What do you think??

2006-12-30 06:23:55 · 19 answers · asked by Kujo 3 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

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There are no coincidences. If Mike wanted to communicate with you, he most certainly would. From that point, it's up to you to listen. Or as our Native peoples would say, "watch for the signs."

I would certainly listen to your daughter. Children are generally more sensitive because this aspect to our human natures has not yet been fully socialized out of them. She heard then she communicated what she heard to you.

Blessings to you and your wonder-full family!

2006-12-30 06:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by gjstoryteller 5 · 0 0

Kari, Let me start by saying I am very sorry about the lost of Mike, and I hope with time your sad memories will be replaced with fond memories that bring a smile.

The reality is that death is all around us. It is only normal for us to wonder if death is the end of it all. Reflecting on the natural cycle of the plants, Job, an ancient faithful servant of God observed: “There exists hope for even a tree. If it gets cut down, it will even sprout again, and its own twig will not cease to be.” See Job 14: 7,14. What, then, about humans? If an able-bodied man dies can he live again? Over the ages, people in every society have pondered these questions: Is there life after death? Can we talk to the dead?

The truth is that we cannot communicate with people who have passed. The bible teaches that the dead are conscious of nothing. See Ecclesiastes 9:5, 10. They are in a sleep like state.

By means of his sacrificial death, Jesus Christ has provided the basis to wipe out the sin and death inherited from Adam. So the dead can be expected to be restored to life here on the earth, just as Jesus demonstrated when he was a man. Remember the story of Lazarus his friend? See John 5:28, 29; John 11:23, 39-44.

God gives freely and his gift is eternal life. See Romans 6:23. Your husband's life now rest in the hands of our Creator.

2006-12-30 06:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by loladrewblue 4 · 0 0

I think you are very blessed.
It is amazing how much inspiration we can get from "the other side." Not long ago I worked with a woman whos husband had also committed suicide. She was very disappointed when he did not "come in" until our session was almost over. He wanted to "talk" but, the things that she wanted to "hear" were different than what he wanted to share, which made it very difficult for him to "come in"... in other words, he felt different about their marriage situation that she did. She "held on" to things that he felt that it was time to "let go" of. Anyway, you and I both receive "signs" from the other side, it would seem. One day I was having a heck of a time, for instance. I am a single mom and felt that I was doing so very much trying to keep it all together, anyway, while driving down the road, exausted and fatigued after having gone to school, done hours of homework, running around doing the brochur and business card thing, trying to get my name out there and further my business, and doing for my kids what they needed, I see this bumper sticker, the car right in front of mine, on the way home "an army of one" from the army. It's exactly what I felt like at the time... an army of one... I smiled and moved on... even though it was not an answer, it was recognition that the other side was with me and knew what I was experiencing..it was exactly what I needed. don't you ever let anyone tell you that you do not "know" what is going on and what you are "experiencing" is not real. it is part of your truth.... your intuition is at work here....children are very sensitive to angels and those who have passed, along with other spirit entities....... you are also sensitive to what is going on, you are right kari, it is in your face.... and we know the truth...I am sure that mike is proud of you, and would not want guilt to be a part of your cell make-up.
pay attention to any dreams that you might have, as these may be visitations

2006-12-30 06:45:46 · answer #3 · answered by amber 5 · 0 0

Communication to who?

2016-05-22 21:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

We all see what we want to see. I'm sure that in the millions of things that happen to us every day, you can find some that seem like Mike is speaking to you. Sadly- this is has no possibility of being the case.

Nevertheless, his memory, values, personality will live on in your life. Cherish his memories and take pleasure in the things in this world around you that remind you of him.

there are no ghosts, spirits, or mediums that communicate with the dead. Oh- and Ouiji boards are just a silly game.

2006-12-30 06:30:18 · answer #5 · answered by Morey000 7 · 0 0

I dont think our passed loved ones send messages from the grave. When we die, we either sleep until judgement (which means not conscious) or we are judged immediately to Heaven or Hell. If a person goes to Heaven, I dont see how it could be very peaceful to houver around earth trying really hard to communicate with our mourning loved ones.. when they can see that we are suffering and missing them so badly and its so hard for them to touch us or contact us. If the person goes to Hell... Im sure eternal torment doesnt include being able to hang around earth and get in a few small communications with the loved ones we left behind

If anyone is helping you through this, it's God.. if anyone is trying to pull your focus away from God, it is Satan.

2006-12-30 06:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by impossble_dream 6 · 0 0

When I was five years old three months after my grandaddy died I was playing in my back yard and I herd him call my name. I looked up and there he was he put his hand on my head and started to talk to me and play with me. I have been communicating with him ever since. When I was sixteen I was a passenger in a car in which my uncle was driving when we had a terrible accident and he was killed. I only had bruises from the safety strap and a busted lip. A week later my dead uncle came and set on my bed beside me and begin to play with me. We have been communicating ever since. There are several other unrelated ghost that communicate with me. Just because some people cant communicate with ghost they think no one can. Don't let them discourage you. Don't forget In the Holy Bible the Witch of Endor called Samuel from his grave to speak with King Saul. Don't listen to people who scoff. God bless. xx

2006-12-30 06:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Obviously we'll never know for sure until it's our turn, but my nephew had a similar experience. When my brother-in-law first visited Myrtle Beach he told my sister that he wanted to be cremated and his ashes spread there. They had many family vacations at Myrtle Beach after that and thirty years later when he died of cancer his grown son waded out into the water to spread the last of the ashes and as he turned to walk back to the beach a giant wave came out of nowhere and drenched him. My nephew has no doubt that it was his father giving him one last hug.

Thank you for bringing back this memory and God Bless you and your family.

2006-12-30 06:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yes I do believe, because not only have I seen ghost, spirits, and angels since age four, some have communicated to me. either I sense what they are thinking and or some communicate that way. One of the last ones spoke out loud to me, she was communicating for about seven months, and I seen her once, completely white and glowed, beautiful comforting voice, I fell to sleep twice to her communicating. I was told she is my spirit guide. I woke up about a week ago, I heard my name spoken out loud in a woman's voice, it sounder like her.
I believe you are sensing it correctly.

2006-12-30 06:40:35 · answer #9 · answered by inteleyes 7 · 0 0

If your ex husband cared so much about you why would he have killed himself??? Suicide is the actions of the selfish not the selfless!!!

Clearly you are trying to attribute charastics to your ex husband that he didn't have in life. IE thinking of someone besides himself! If he had thought of how others would feel he wouldn't have commited suicide!

Let it go and move on!
He's dead and the dead can not speek!!

2006-12-30 06:29:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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