So i kinda had a tiny crush on this guy, and someone asked him out for me ,but before he could answer(i don't want to make my best freind seem like the bad guy, but...) my best friend goes and asks him out. They are now going out and she is "madly" in love with him. I am over the guy but my feelings are still shattered becaus dont you think she could have asked me before she asked him out. She knew i asked him out before But i would have liked alittle notice~~ We aren't really fighting about it any more, BUT my feelings inside aren't doing to well. Cause all my other frineds were SO suprised when they heard she did that! I don't want to bring the topic up again with her and her family, but i really dont like keeping all this in! Now, i understand that she thought i didn't like him any more, BUT i still would have liked her to come and ask/mention it to me that she is "madly" in love with him, then i wouldn't be mad, now i feel uncomfortable around them!! HELPPP!!
2006-12-30 06:16:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she knew that you had like him and she knew that you had asked him out then i see why you have a right to be mad at her but then again even though she did wrong theres no reazon to fight over a guy right?
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2006-12-30 06:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not a friend. Many times I helped friends like that and was helped as well and we always respected each other. You dont need this person around, you need people you can trust. Ignore them as you dont care and you are way better without them. Go ahead, make new friends, but never put your feelings on their hands again. You can get advices, but that kind of thing, must be done by you only. Good luck!
2006-12-30 14:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by guriazinhainla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are certain that she didn't think that you liked him anymore, forgive and forget. However, if she knew that you liked the guy and she asked him out anyway, she is not really your friend.
2006-12-30 14:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny Q. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You knew that I liked him. We were out side and BTL came up to you and said"he said yes" you said "NO I DONT LIKE HIM LIKE THAT" so I went ahead thinking you were not into him. I didn't call you names and I haven't go up to him at the hockey game and call me a b*tch right to his face.
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2007-01-01 21:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she honestly thought u didnt like him anymore forgive her and move on...but it kinda sounds like she did it knowing you may still like him...in which case is she TRULY your friend?
2006-12-30 14:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
..get a new friend...
2006-12-30 14:17:43 · answer #6 · answered by chillie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋