My rencently saw on my boyfriends computer that he looked at his ex-gf's pictures while I went away for a weekend. I know it is normal to keep pictures as a memory of that person and the special time the couple shared together, so I do not have a problem with that. However, all the pictures he looked at were pornograhpic. Is this typical? Should I be highly insulted and confront him?
2006-12-30 06:14:14 · 16 answers · asked by Brainsofop 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Memories are one thing, porn is another.
I would suggest talking to him and telling him how you feel about this. If it means nothing to him then he won´t have a problem getting rid of them. Be insulted if he spends more time looking at these pics instead of you. He´s prob not worth the time in that case and will spend a long time alone with some pics of a past fling, and that´s a very sad life.
2006-12-30 06:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your boyfriend did was wrong. But don't insult him, just talk with him, and ask him why did he do that.
Try to fix this stuff in a constructive way, not destructive.
On the other hand, maybe he just was sending the pictures to his friends, so to choose what picture will you send them, you have to see it first. So, if he really doesn't care his ex girlfriend, he could be sending that pictures to his friends.
Also could be another person was using the computer and was looking for pictures.
Well, i hope you don't be sad or nothing, just talk with him about you found
2006-12-30 14:21:56 · answer #2 · answered by Entrada de datos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should let him know that you know he was looking at the x-rated pictures (but bring it up in a more joking way, dont sound angry about it tho) and of course he is going to feel bad about it because he got caught. but he is a guy so i wouldnt worry about it...just make sure the pictures werent recent, make sure he doesnt spend to much time looking at them either and turn it into a habit!,and make sure he is not contacting this ex girlfriend. â think about it if you had some pics of your ex boyfriend do u think you would NEVER look at them again.
2006-12-30 14:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by ♦Bre♥ezy♦ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try not to look at any pics of my ex-girlfriends, brings up memories I would rather forget. And when I have a new girlfriend, I focus on her and the future and not on the past or past girlfriends. Thats just me.
2006-12-30 14:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to see what the guys have to say but I would be offended! It is normal to still have photos of loved ones however pornograhic crosses the line. He shouldnt be looking at her in a sexual way anymore thats your job now.....
2006-12-30 14:20:07 · answer #5 · answered by Megan C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him, it isnt normal to keep pictures of your ex if you in a new relation ship. Think if yo would do that to him and how he would react.
2006-12-30 14:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by cuetee220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a toughie if you confront him he will think you are spying on him and going through his stuff.I think its very disrespectfult o you for him to be doing that. Its tough to say
2006-12-30 14:17:49 · answer #7 · answered by fg f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way they are exs for a reason, i don't want to see their bodies again,,,, been there already, don't want to go back lol, it's just wrong, yes confront him.
2006-12-30 14:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you should express your discontent and see what happens. In most cases ... guys will be guys ... it may mean nothing. But, letting him know what it means to you is valuable communication - in my not so humble opinion.
2006-12-30 14:17:14 · answer #9 · answered by bionicbookworm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think any pictures of previous relationships, should be fully-clothed and appropriate.
2006-12-30 14:16:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋