I'm in high school, and i don't have a cell phone, so i wasn't able to call my boyfriend all break, even though he bought me a $200 necklace that he gave me b4, we left school. Am i rude? "Abscence makes the heart fonder"...right?
2006-12-30 05:52:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think u should call him and say that u r sorry and it will be ok
2006-12-30 05:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, for a $200 necklace from even a FRIEND, if that was me, I would have AT LEAST bought a $5/10 universal long distance phone card found AT LEAST a pay phone and called them to say 'hey' AT LEAST on Christmas Eve. And your being in HS I dont think u guys really know the meaning nor care about that 'absence makes the heart grow fonder' stuff...do you???
2006-12-30 14:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the saying. If he understands that you don't have a cell phone or if you have told him I don't think he will get upset or think you are rude. However, if he doesn't know you didn't have a cell phone or that you had no way to call him he might very well get upset or think you are rude. Remember, communication is the basis of a good relationship. Always make sure you communicate your feelings to your boyfriend and in clear concise terms so there will be no misunderstanding.
2006-12-30 13:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, not having a cell phone is not really an excuse they are other phones than a cell and after giving you an $200 necklace I would at least want a call and calling someone has nothing to do with abstinence
2006-12-30 13:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by Keewani B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes absence does make the heart grow fonder, but a nice thank-you note with a bit of your Christmas activities dropped in the mail would have been nice too.
I'm sure he understands why you didn't call. Don't worry about not calling, but think about snail mail next time.
2006-12-30 13:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...in a case like this, with a reasonably expensive present on the line, It makes the heart PISSED. You don't have access to phone for a couple of 20minute calls...Don't be surprised if he doesn't have much to say to you when you see him next. Your in High School, you live on the phone any other time.
2006-12-30 13:57:09 · answer #6 · answered by Psycomagnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're rude you had a good reason why you couldn't call him. He'll understand.
2006-12-30 13:56:09 · answer #7 · answered by ☆ Sarah ☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have checked in with him at least once to find out how things were going with his holiday.
2006-12-30 13:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by bionicbookworm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no b/c u had no way of calling him but just explain why u couldn't call him so he wont take it the wrong way
2006-12-30 13:55:13 · answer #9 · answered by cheerin4bowwow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm if u couldn't call him then just tell him that you don't need to explain yourself to anyone!!! but it is nice when you call guys like it, it makes them feel like they matter!
2006-12-30 13:55:18 · answer #10 · answered by auttiemarie03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋