See I gave a guy who used to always make a point to smile at me and say hi too me at work a Christmas card. I slipped a photo of me in it as well, and included my phone number. That was before Christmas break and he still hasn't called. I'm depressed and hurt.
He weighs about 250 but is really cute. I like bigger men. Plus he's really shy. Other than that, I don't know why he wouldn't call--he's insecure? I know he's single, and possibly a 25 year old virgin. I'm 28 but I know he liked me before. so why do you think he decided not to call. Please be gentle with your answers, but honest. Thanks! Happy New Year!
2006-12-30 05:24:46 · 15 answers · asked by PrincessSnowflake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Like you said, he may be insecure. Just persist and get to know him better until he feel more comfortable approaching you. You have done the first step he know you like him, if he is flirty with you at work be persistant to take it further, he probably just shy. If you work with him then there no rush into some sort of relationship as you have plenty of time to get to know each other, without the pressure of a date!
2006-12-30 05:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by Scatty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me Ive always found that guys ares so much more simpler then we always think they are. If a guy likes you, you would know it. If hes shy, then maybe hes too insecure to call you up. But I think something you should look at his behavior now. Is he still smiling when he comes to your work? or is he avoiding you? If he still has not called or even come into the store in another week then to be honest maybe he is just casually flirting with you and not really interested in more. They scare easily, it sucks i know.
2006-12-30 13:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by ziomy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be two reasons...
1) Just because you like him does not mean he likes you in the same way.
2) If what you say about him is right... he is probably too shy to call you. You should have got his number... so you could ring him. I guess you will soon find out what the story is when you go back to work.
2006-12-30 13:33:02 · answer #3 · answered by Aussies-Online 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys kind of have a different timeline than girls. He may plan on calling, but doesn't see the rush, whereas, your timeline expected a call relatively soon. Or maybe he likes you but isn't ready to move into a relationship. Why dont you make the first move? We do live in a time where women can take the initiative.
2006-12-30 13:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by moonshadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm almost completely sure that the butterflies in his stomach are just too much. He's probably so exited and scared that he doesn't want to mess this up. Sometimes I really think it is best for a girl to make an initial move just to at least break the ice.
2006-12-30 13:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure why he wouldn't to be honest. It could be that he is so shy he can't talk, or maybe he doesn't really want to be with you in that way. Maybe he has a girlfriend already, not sure. Hope for the first one and talk to him in person the next time you see him. Good luck.
2006-12-30 13:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's like you said, he's shy. When you gave him your picture and phone number, he was probably too shy to call. Maybe he's scared. If I were you, I'd talk to him in person. Get to know him. If he doesn't call you, try calling him.
Good Luck:)
2006-12-30 13:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has been busy with his family. Give him some time it hasn't been that long since you gave him the card. Or maybe he is just a genuinely nice guy, and you read more into it than there was.
2006-12-30 13:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes proubly to shy to call.You should try getting his #.Some guys are like that . My bf was the same way.I had to talk the shyness out of him.Try talking to him rather than just saying hi all the time.That may help him overcome his shyness towards you.Well good luck.I hope it works out well....
2006-12-30 13:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by halleyluvu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be shy but if its been over 2 months give up and move on!!!! your 28! it will be easy to find a better guy than this one. but if you really like this guy don't give up!!! keep trying or send a letter asking all of the questions you want to know!!!!!!
2006-12-30 13:31:37 · answer #10 · answered by iluvdabeat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋