i need help....i use to be really outgoing with this friend of mine...and shes soo cool!! but now...i sometimes struggle abit when im talking to her....its mainly i dunno what to say....help plz!?!?
2006-12-30 05:16:43 · 4 answers · asked by no name 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To say what? Do you know yourself? When you know you will tell
2006-12-30 05:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by simplegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you struggling cause you like her?
Just talk about whatever. When you go out to a movie talk about other good/bad movies you've seen, and then talk about the one you just saw. What you liked or didn't like about it, and the situations that happened, what ever it is.
Talk about your day, school, work, if anything exciting has happened or not.
Talk about an upcoming event or trip that you eventually want to take or something.
Talk about something that interests you, its easier to carry on a conversation about something that you like, say cars, even if she's not into them, you can teach her about them, know what I mean?
I'd just roll with it, relax and dont put so much pressure on yourself and get back to being the outgoing person you were.
2006-12-30 13:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to worry about this coz it mostly happens.The reason is mainly that we spend and share lot of time and matters with them.One day we feel like there are barely any topics to discuss about .So the best thing to do is to give each other some space or a short break till you make yourself ready to go out with her.
2006-12-30 13:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't have anything to speak, listen to her. Be a good listener. May be you can tell some harmless coments.
2006-12-30 13:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by DIm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋