2006-12-30 05:13:32 · 15 answers · asked by Kurt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No don't. That'd empower them to cheat the more. Just sit down the mate and pour all your concerns. If they've some sense left, they'll respect you untill eternity. You aint goin to play that kid stuff with cellphone. ar u?
2006-12-30 05:21:54 · answer #1 · answered by ari-pup 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, been there, done that. I don't think it's ok to look through anyone elses personal stuff, but sometimes you just need answers. Every single time I did it to my husband (now ex husband) I found proof that he WAS cheating. My instincts were correct and now I'm happy I looked. But if you look and you don't find anything, then you just blew a trust issue with your signifcant other. Snooping is never a good thing. And make sure you are ready to deal with what you find before you look. Some people are much happier "not knowing".
2006-12-30 13:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by It's Me 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you suspect them of cheating, then there must be signs. You need to talk with them and hear it from them, instead of doing stuff behind their back and trying to justify your thoughts.
2006-12-30 13:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by FearDragons 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It'll save you heartache later...Im one who watches the show cheaters and hope the results come back nope thier not cheating. Not good television but it would be nice for a change.
2006-12-30 13:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by acronym rebel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! If you think they're cheating, you need to confront them. You don't like the fact that they're sneaking around behind your back, so don't stoop to that low. Be direct.
2006-12-30 13:15:40 · answer #5 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to them first, hear their side of the story. If it sounds like BS, then search away :) Otherwise, if they find out, it shows that you don't trust them.
2006-12-30 13:15:56 · answer #6 · answered by Tess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry bud it is wrong to do that. But go ahead anyway and clear what is bugging you. Remember "THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE".
2006-12-30 13:16:55 · answer #7 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront them. if it seems like they are lying then just sneak it away from them and when they leave your house search through it and sy they left it at your house
2006-12-30 13:18:20 · answer #8 · answered by monkey8kenna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't even try because she will blame you for going through her stuff because you didn't trust her.
but you should wait until you see it with your own eyes and then you talk to her. that makes it easy for you because you witness it yourself.
good luck!
2006-12-30 13:18:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
what if you are just being paranoid? talk to your mate
2006-12-30 13:18:06 · answer #10 · answered by Yulia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋