there was this girl in my class in undergrad coll whom i admired at the beginning and later told her abt!! but really nothing happenned !! and i forgot abt it totally!! there was a little bit cold between both!! but i think it became kinda forgotten!!
now i m in postgrad !!she is doing post grad !! she is in a relationship i think with sumbody!!but i think she has fallen very sick and had to hospitalised!! although she is a very good friend of my best friend and other friends of my group!!
should i ask her well being or will that be very awkward from my side?? will i again send out the wrong signals! although i have no such intentions!!
2006-12-30 05:11:54 · 7 answers · asked by metallixan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only if she is VERY sick, (i.e. there is a chance she might kick the bucket) would I ask of her well being. If its not a life/death issue I wouldnt bother asking of her, because YES it will give off the wrong signals.
2006-12-30 05:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by Chimera's Song 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you would like her to visit if you were in hospital, then yes, go ahead. If you would think it meant something more if she were to visit you, then leave her be and just see how she is when she gets out.
It depends on the reason behind her hospitalisation though - if it's something she might feel embarrassed about or might not want you to know about, then I would just send a card along with one of her closer friends - just 'best wishes, see you soon' would be nice.
2006-12-30 13:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by Extra_Sweetcorn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just send her a get well card, I'm sure she'd appreciate the gesture and wouldn't read anything into it. Also cut back on the exclamatory!
2006-12-30 14:47:56 · answer #3 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should.
I don't think it will be unwelcome.
And if it's a card you can always make sure when you sign that she can see that it's just friendly.
I think that it's very nice of you.
2006-12-30 13:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong in being concerned for someones health and maybe she might appreciate your kind words and thoughts. good luck
2007-01-03 06:46:18 · answer #5 · answered by Fallen Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her a get well card...theres no harm in that...if you feel awkward about putting just your name on it...ask her classmates to sign it too....
2006-12-30 13:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't see any harm in asking how she is and wishing her well.
2006-12-30 13:26:13 · answer #7 · answered by serephina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋