ok my ex called me on x-mas and offered 2 take me out saturday. i called him thursday told him saturdays no good try friday. so thursday night we arranged for him to pick me up friday after work and head out. My niece had been begging me to use my car for about 2 weeks so since i knew i would have a ride after work i let her borrow it. Friday mid afternoon i get a phone call from him saying he cant make it and hes sorry something came up last minute his mom wanted him 2 do something, i knew that souded fishy so i called his mom sure enough it was a lie his mom told me he just didnt want 2 see me. so needless 2 say i ended up riding the train and buses home. when i got home me and his mom had a long convo about how he wants the best of both worlds and he doesnt want me to move on, which is why he offered 2 take me out so i couldnt plan a date with anyone else. i think there could be more to that story... what do you think?
2006-12-30 04:48:30 · 9 answers · asked by I know these things 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yeah 2 the person who asked y me and his mom still talk, its because over the course of our relationship i kind of looked up 2 her 4 advice and stuff also i 4got 2 mention it in my questions but it is in my previous posts. we were married, and had it annulled he ran off with some he went 2 school with 4 a few days came back and we talked a few times after it was annulled and after i stopped calling him he popped up calling at christmas
2006-12-30 05:02:17 · update #1
I think both him an dhis mom doesn't want you a part of their life.
I would follow her advice and cut this asswipe out of my life.
2006-12-30 04:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 00:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He called you hoping that you would say yes to a date with him, which you did....that boosted his ego and made him think "oh, i still got it and she still wants me." He just wanted that reaction so that he knows you'll still be there at his disposal. When he called he knew he wasn't gonna go anywhere with you, just wanted to see where your head was at. Dont answer the phone anymore, he's gonna keep calling, just know you're making him look stupid because you dont have time to answer and you're too busy to talk to him.
2006-12-30 04:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by kea_gsu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just had a change of mind and got cold feet. All he really wanted to do was to wish you a Merry Christmas.
The relationship is over and done, so move on and forget him.
2006-12-30 04:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy is trying to monopolize your plans to keep you tied up while he's doing whatever he wants knowing that you'll still be available to fall back on , my suggestion:move on there are plenty of good people out there,don't take no crap!
2006-12-30 04:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by EUGENE M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think his mom is right. It's good that she is open enough with you to tell you those things about her own son. It sounds like he's playing mind games on you, and I think your best bet is to not rely on him for anything more. If he wants to see you, you should have it on your own terms, so you wont be left standing again.
2006-12-30 04:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by moonshadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk... Forget him and lose his phone number and change yours...
He's yanking your chain, let him stew and move on with your life...
2006-12-30 04:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't really get why your having conversations with your ex's mom..
2006-12-30 04:51:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to him.... ask him what's going on?
2006-12-30 04:52:01 · answer #9 · answered by timeoutll 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋