I love my boyfriend hes perfect and nice but a guy in my class always flirts with me at first he was just nice to me and all then he flirts flirts flirts !!! every one in my class thinks im cheating with another person but i dont really flirt back at all and what if my boyfriend finds out and believes them and thinks im flirting back please help!!!
2006-12-30 04:47:36 · 16 answers · asked by April 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you wana keep your bf stay away from the guy! but what ever you do dont cheat because ppl will always remember and it always gets out!
Good luck...
...x o x o !
2006-12-30 04:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by ♥..::Amy::..♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First tell this guy straight out that you have a boyfriend and aren't interested in him. If this doesn't end the flirting, talk to your boyfriend and explain the situation so that he doesn't get the information second-hand.
Some girls go on ego trip when guys flirt with them and enjoy the heck out of it even when they have no interest. They may even flirt back a little to keep things going. You say that you don't "really" flirt back. Does "really" really mean "a little". Anyway I hope you are not one of these girls! Good luck.
2006-12-30 04:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by Johann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the guy that you are going to tell your boyfriend, then tell your boyfriend how you do not flirt back with him and if your boyfriend really cares he will only believe you and he will help you take care of the situation
2006-12-30 04:54:55 · answer #3 · answered by btheman8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try and explain to him what he really means to you. Ask him if he is more likely to believe you or your class. If he doesn't believe you, then he doesn't trust you, and you can't have a relationship without trust. Tell him that you aren't flirting with anyone and that he is your #1 guy. If he doesn't trust you, then leave him. There are other fish in the sea. Good luck. I hope you can work it out with him.
2006-12-30 04:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Harmless flirting is ok but if you cross the line then your boyfriend won't be happy. You do not have to have a physical relationship to be cheating and think how you would feel if your boyfriend was doing the same to you
2006-12-30 04:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. tell the guy to quit flirting, that it makes you uncomfortable
2. tell your boyfriend that you did #1
3. if he doesn't believe you, then he has trust issues and shouldn't be your boyfriend
2006-12-30 04:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let the flirt overhear you talking about your boyfriend with one of your friends.
if he doesn't stop, tell him you have a boyfriend.
don't flirt back and your boyfriend has no reason to be jealous.
also, no boyfriend is perfect!
2006-12-30 04:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by Becky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you're boyfriend about the situation better to hear it from you that the gossips. You can't help it this guy has the hots for ya.
2006-12-30 04:50:34 · answer #8 · answered by Buffy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell that guy that he needs to stop flirting with you. If he doesn't , don't even acknowledge him. He is wrong and disrespecting your b/f, so let him know this.
2006-12-30 04:49:39 · answer #9 · answered by big stan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell this guy to leave you alone or that what is going on is disturbing to you and ultimately tell your boyfriend. Communication is key - fear is the relationship killer.
Good Luck!!!
2006-12-30 04:50:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋